8 Things That Will Happen During Sex If He Has A Big Penis

If you are a sexually active person who likes to hook up with dudes, then chances are good that, at some point, you’ll have sex with a guy who has a big penis. Now, I know that big penises are supposed to be a very important thing for great sex. Men are encouraged to have them, by any means necessary, and are made to feel bad if their penises aren’t large enough. Women seemingly get all heart-eyes emoji when finding out someone has one (at least, in movies and TV shows). And it’s true, sex with a big penis has many perks. But a really big penis? Yeah, that’s when things get, uh, a little more complicated.

Your vagina can stretch more than you think it can, so having sex with a very large penis is certainly not impossible. It’s just not always as perfect as everyone makes it seem. If you’ve ever gotten a glimpse down there at the guy you’re hooking up with, and immediately noticed he was, uh, quite enormous, you probably had a moment where you thought, “Oh my God, what am I supposed to do with that thing?” You are not alone! There is nothing wrong with a big penis, of course, but they can definitely seem intimidating, which is why there are some things you should know. We’ve got some tips on how to hook up with someone who has a large penis, but what should you expect to happen before you get there? Here are a few things that will happen if you’re having sex with someone who has a big penis. Just a warning!

 


It Will Probably Hurt

Having sex with a guy who has a penis that is larger than the average size? It's almost definitely going to hurt a little more than usual, at least in the beginning. It makes sense - you're being penetrated with something that seems a little too big, and this is especially true if it's both wider and longer than "normal." Even with something small, penetration can hurt, so this seems pretty obvious. To make sure it doesn't hurt too much, just take things slow, especially in the beginning.

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Some Positions Will Feel Impossible

If his penis is quite large, then yeah - you guys might not be able to do certain positions. A lot of guys and girls say that doggy style, which offers deeper penetration, is nearly impossible for them. Anything from the back can be tough, and really any position that makes it easier for the penis to get in there more can be hard too.

But it's not all impossible, of course. There are positions that are generally thought of as better for larger penises. One of the most popular is girl on top, since that gives you the most control over penetration. Other popular ones include standing sex, reverse cowgirl, and spooning. Your best bet is to try out different things until you find what feels comfortable for you.

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It Might Not Fit All The Way In

Okay, yes: a really big penis might not get all the way in there, and that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with your vagina. It could just be too painful if he were to try to squeeze it all in! Controlling the depth of penetration is really, really important for sex with a big penis, because it's totally possible for your vagina to tear. He could also hit your cervix, which can REALLY be painful. So, if it starts to feel very uncomfortable, have him pull back a bit.

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Foreplay Is Necessary

Foreplay is, honestly, always necessary, but that's especially true in this situation. Foreplay will help get you both excited, and this is important for you - you'll get more naturally lubricated and more relaxed as you get more turned on, making it easier to get things in down there.

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You'll Most Likely Feel Sore Afterwards

Penetrative sex always comes with the risk of feeling sore down there, for obvious reasons. But you might feel even more sore if his penis is really big, again, for obvious reasons. It's normal to get swollen (which can take a few hours to go down) and sore, but if it lasts for more than a day and makes it hard to, you know, function, see your doctor - he may have hit your cervix.

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He'll Be More Sensitive About It Than You'd Think

Here's a personal anecdote: I was once with a guy who had a very large penis, the biggest I'd ever seen. As soon as I saw it, I blurted out, "Wow I don't know how this is going to work." I am an awkward person, so this isn't surprising, but it was much more weird than I thought it would be. He didn't take it as a compliment, he actually got a little insulted. Apparently, he had an issue hooking up with girls because of his size, and it was something he felt bad about. I felt horrible and I encourage you not to say things like this! It might sound like a "nice" thing to say, but it could make him feel really weird.

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You Might Need Lube

By "might" I mean you will definitely need lube. If you're having trouble getting that thing in there, add some lube so that it feels less tough.

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You'll (Probably) Get Used To It Eventually

The first few times you hook up with someone with a big penis, it might be painful, uncomfortable, and awkward, especially in the beginning of sex. But after a while, you'll learn the positions that work for you guys, the moves that feel good, and a rhythm that makes things easier... probably.

Of course, there is always the chance that his penis might not ever feel super great down there. In fact, I've heard other girls say they don't love having sex with a guy with a huge penis because it's too hard for them. So, don't feel weird if you feel this way!

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