Being sexy can be… hard. Unless you are super confident all the time, feeling sexy takes work. Anyone who says they are just naturally sexy when they wake up in the morning is probably lying. But, before we get into that, let’s talk about what “being sexy” really means, okay? Being sexy isn’t just about showing off big boobs and a small waist, despite what Hollywood wants you to think. Not to sound too much like a mom, but sexiness is of a ~feeling~ than a physical trait. Sure, you can look sexy, but you know what makes someone look sexy? Being comfortable and confident in your own skin, no matter what you’re doing or wearing. And I’m sure you already know that it can be hard to actually be confident and comfortable in your own skin.
Believe it or not, there are some pretty easy ways to be sexy, even if you’re not really 100 percent feeling that way. Like I said, being comfortable in your own skin is what makes someone seem sexy, so you have to find what makes you feel that way. If you don’t know how, it’s okay. It can be hard to feel like you are a goddess, even if you are! Here are some easy tips on how to actually be sexy, no matter what you look like.
Wear Something ComfortableYou can't feel sexy if you are wearing something uncomfortable, like a tight bralette. If you happen to feel comfortable in a tight bralette, then awesome! The issue isn’t about the item you’re wearing, it’s how the item feels for you. You want to wear something that feels good, not something that will, say, cut off your circulation or require constant adjustments.Wear items that fit well and make you happy – don’t wear something only because you think others will think it’s sexy. If you aren’t comfortable in an outfit, it will show… and that’s not exactly the sexy vibe you’re looking for. Image Source: One Tree Hill
Add Red LipstickYou are 1000000 times more powerful when you are wearing red lipstick. Science has even proven it , research has found that when women wear red lipstick to work, they feel more confident. Confidence in how you look equals sexy, so find the shade that’s perfect for you, then rock it whenever you feel like you need a boost. Find a shade that's perfect for you, the rock it whenever you are feeling like you need a boost. Image Source: Twin Peaks
Fix Your PostureI know it's weird, but you will actually feel a lot better about yourself and your body when you sit and stand up straight. When you slouch, it gives a "closed-off" impression that might make you seem standoffish and not sexy. When you are standing tall, you will also give off a powerful impression. Just try to keep it in mind when you are sitting/standing throughout the day! Image Source: Clueless
Wear Textured ClothesI know this one is also weird, but, supposedly, textured clothes like leather and lace can help make you feel more sexy. I'm not sure why, but if you want to feel super confident and comfortable, try out some clothes with textures. Image Source: Pretty Little Lairs
Do YogaYoga can make you feel more confident in your body, which can help you feel sexy AF. There are certain stretches and poses that can help your balance, which can help you feel more steady and strong, both physically AND mentally. Bodies are crazy, right? Image Source: Big Little Lies
Walk Slowly (But Not Too Slow)You don't want to walk like a sloth, but you don't want to be running around everywhere all the time, which can give off the impression that you are overwhelmed. Obviously, you don't have to walk like you're lost, but you should always walk with purpose (even if you don't know what the purpose is). Image Source: The OC
Look People In The EyesWhen you're talking to someone, a good way to seem very sure of yourself is to look them in the eyes. You will give off some "I know what I'm talking about" vibes, even if you have no clue what you're talking about. Walking slowly and confidently can make you seem more confident, put together, and in control, all of which come off as sexy. Image Source: Riverdale
Do YOU!In the end, the only thing that matters is that you feel happy and confident in yourself, and not how you think you should act. If you feel sexy staying in and watching Netflix, then do it, girl! Don't let anyone, even me, tell me what is or isn't sexy. As long as you're happy, you're good. Image Source: Gossip Girl
Are you going to use any of these tips? Tell us in the comments!