I don’t want to say that you’re bad at having sex, because you probably aren’t! But, there is a chance that you are making SOME mistakes when it comes to doing it with your bae. They aren’t life-altering mistakes (well, not wearing protection is one, but I’ll get to that later) but they can totally ruin your sexual experience, which is the last thing you want to do when you are getting it on, right? Sex should be fun and exciting, and in order to have fun, you want to make sure you’re doing everything right.
Okay, there isn’t actually a right way to have sex (besides it being consensual, of course) but there ARE some wrong things you might be doing while you have sex. It’s okay to mess up sometimes, you’re human! But you want to make sure you’re making the most of your sexual experience, and that can be a little tough. Don’t worry! I am going to tell you the things you are doing wrong during sex, and then I’m going to give you some advice on how to stop doing them, and be a ~sex pro~.
Faking An OrgasmSTOP FAKING ORGASMS! According to a new study, 68 percent of women FAKE their orgasms. WTF? If you're partner is orgasming, you should be too! Sex is for both people, not just one. If only one person is finishing, it's really not fair. Also, according to the same study, it can cause harm in your relationship, since your partner might get embarrassed or feel bad that you can't orgasm. The best thing for you to do is talk it out and explain exactly what you like. It's worth it! Image Source: iStock
Giving But Not GettingAnother thing you might be doing wrong is giving your partner all of the attention, while you're left with nothing. Sure, it's great to give your partner a BJ, but that doesn't mean they can't return the favor, right? Make sure they are doing stuff to make you feel good, too! It's important. Image Source: iStock
Thinking Too MuchI am the Queen of overthinking things, but it's actually really important to try and NOT overthink stuff, especially when you're having sex. You might feel super self-conscious or nervous that you're not doing things right, but the less you think and the more you go with the flow, the better you will feel. Obviously, you should speak up if you feel uncomfortable! But try not to overthink everything you do. Image Source: iStock
Not Asking What You WantYou have to tell your bae what you want! I mean, how will they know unless you tell them, right? Tell your partner what feels good and what doesn't feel good. After all, sex is supposed to be for both of you to enjoy! Image Source: iStock
Not Peeing AfterThe number one piece of advice I can give to any girl ever is to PEE AFTER SEX. You don't know what type of funky bacteria can get up in there when you're doing it, and peeing right after you finish can help flush away any gross stuff that can cause a UTI or infection. Image Source: iStock
Not Using ProtectionGuys will probably tell you that using a condom doesn't feel good for them. If that's the case, don't have sex with them. You really have to protect yourself from STD's and pregnancy, guys. I know you might think it'll ruin the moment, but it's worth it in the end. Image Source: iStock
Doing The Same Thing Every TimeIt's a good idea to switch it up every once in awhile. Sure, a routine can be fun, but if you never try out a wacky sex position, you'll never know if it will be the best thing you've ever done. So, don't be afraid to try something new, like car sex or outdoor sex! Image Source: iStock
Are you going to try any of these tips? Tell us in the comments!