Every introvert knows that having sex can be, uh, a little difficult. Having sex means being vulnerable and feeling very comfortable with someone, two things that can be kind of a struggle for introverts. It’s easy for introverts (or really anyone) to fall into a routine that feels familiar, which means that they’re probably using the same sex positions every single time they hit the sheets with someone. You as an introvert might not be too inclined to try out the craziest, most dangerous sex positions. You are probably more comfortable trying positions that are fun and very low risk, which is 100 percent fine. But admit it: it can get a little boring after a while. And one of the easiest ways to fix that is to try a new position, something that is fun but still reflects your personality.
The first rule of having sex while being introverted is to make sure you are comfortable. You don’t want to try out any weird tips that might make you feel super awkward, because that isn’t fun for anyone, and goes against the whole point of this post. The second rule? You have to push yourself to get out of your comfort zone a little bit in order for this to work. Of course that doesn’t mean doing something that seems terrifying – it might mean trying that position you’ve always wondered about but have also always felt a teensy bit nervous about. You have to find the balance. Need more guidance? We’ve got you covered. Here are a few sex positions every introvert should try ASAP:
Brute Sex PositionThis position has a weird name, but it's actually a good position for introverts. You start by laying down, while your bae kneels down over you, with their back towards you. First of all, you don't have to do much in this position, which is always a plus (yay lazy girls!). It also makes it nearly impossible for your bae to see you, so if you're feeling ~shy~ this a good way to make sure your bae doesn't see the weird faces you make during sex. Kidding (kind of). Source
Legs Up MissionaryIf you don't want to leave your comfort zone (which is fine!) stick to missionary. It's the easiest and probably most common sex position, but putting your legs up adds a little something extra that you and your bae will love. Start in the missionary position, then rest your legs on your bae's shoulders. It's an easy way to switch it up a bit, without doing something too crazy. Source
Hang Loose PositionThis is another easy sex position because you start out in missionary, which is simple enough. Get into missionary with your partner on top, then slowly slide off the bed so that your head is hanging over the edge. It puts a new spin on a position you are used to. You can even lower your arms to the floor if you need! If you start to get light headed, you should be sure to take a break! Source
The Wrap AroundIf you want to spend a little more face to face time with bae, try the wrap around position. Have your partner sit with their legs out, as you squat on top with your legs crossed. You are on top, so you need to do a little bit of work, but your bae will help you out! It's worth it. Source
Superwoman PositionNot only will this position make you feel confident AF, you will actually feel like a superhero which, let's face it, you already are. All you need to do is have your bae stand behind you as you lay on your stomach with your legs off of the bed. Have them hold you by the waist as you keep a grip on the bed. Your partner basically does all the work, which is cool. Source
Face to FaceIf you feel more comfortable being closer to your bae, try the face to face position. It's really ~intimate~ which is perfect if you feel comfortable enough with your partner to do this! Have your partner sit on the bed as you slide into their lap. Have them hold onto your legs so that you are in a sort of "cradle" motion. You can slowly rock back and forth together in order to have an awesome sex session. Source
Masturbate With Your PartnerNot feeling up to sex? No worries, just try masturbating with your partner! You might feel too vulnerable having full-on sex with someone, but if you're both doing' your thing at the same time, it'll be a fun and exciting experience for the both of you. Not sure how to do that? It's okay, we've got tips for that as well! Source: iStock
Which of these positions are you going to try? Tell us in the comments!