The act of sex can be terrifying, since you are naked and vulnerable with another person. Don’t get me wrong, it can be an amazing experience, but it can also take a little while to get there. And once you’re comfortable with it, it can be really awesome! So awesome, in fact, that you want to try new ways of doing it. And those new ways might be a little…intimidating. Something that a lot of girls struggle with is the idea of anal sex. It can be a lot more nerve-racking than regular sex, since the topic is pretty taboo and not many people talk about it IRL. Luckily, many people love to talk about it online, including the girls on our boards.
Recently, user andiebrontekay came to our boards and wrote about her anal sex experience. She wrote, “I had anal sex with some lad I knew at a party but we weren’t together and it was actually so good! What do you guys think of anal sex?” That’s a pretty common question, TBH. I mean, we all want to know what other girl’s sexual experiences are, so we can compare it to ours and get some tips and tricks. This is no different for anal sex, especially since it’s a topic that isn’t talking about very often. So, our girls shared their own stories about anal sex, and we’ve gathered them here so that you can learn from them. Check them out if you want to become an anal sex expert, or are just curious about it!
Try It With Sex ToysRachelH said, "Maybe consider buying a sex toy to help ease you up a little. on the day, get him to finger you bum first, and then when he uses his cock, make sure he is very slow, very gentle and very lubricated. It also helps if you are very aroused I find." A sex toy could actually really help! It can get you used to the sensation, but you would have complete control over it. Don't forget to use lube, though! Image Source: iStock
Try To RelaxCarrie95 said, "Engage in foreplay. Start slowly. I'm super tight at the entrance, so I have to stop once the head gets in so I can adjust/relax. Once I'm relaxed and he gets up inside, it's good (can be sooo good), but it takes time/patience/effort to get to that point. The more tense you are, the more it will hurt. This user suggests trying foreplay before so it will help you relax and feel less tense. It is also important to be patient, since there is a good chance you might have to try a few times before you get it right. Image Source: iStock
Beware Of InfectionSueAnn said, "I never have had anal sex but am willing to try it if he wears a condom and uses a lots of lube. My fear is that he would slip out of my vagina and slide into my anus and then back into my vagina in the heat of the moment and give me an infection." Okay, this is actually a very valid fear. When having anal, there is a higher chance of bacteria going from your anus to your vagina, which could cause a bacterial infection. It's important to be very careful and clean when having anal sex. Image Source: iStock
It Feels A Lot Different Than Sexjasminenewman said, "I love anal sex feels very different. I also like having both holes filled at the same time?" You can also have both holes filled at the same time, as this user pointed out. While having anal sex, you can have your partner use their fingers for a totally different feeling. Image Source: iStock
Be Sure To Take It SlowOmgItsRira said, "Just take it really, really, really slow. You can start off with a lubricated finger (I actually tried that the other day, and after years of discomfort, it wasn't so bad.) Anyway, you can start off that way, and build up to two fingers after you get more into it. Just remember to use a lot of lubricant when you do." It's not a bad idea to start off by trying it on yourself first. This way, you can get a good idea of what it will feel like. Take it slow and be SURE to use lube so you won't be in pain! Image Source: iStock
It Might Not Be For Everyonenocturnalmistress said, "Did it once, but wouldn't do it again." It's good to try things you want to, but anal sex isn't for everyone. You also don't even have to try it in the first place! Image Source: iStock
But It's Worth A ShotShellyB said,"I have a very negative opinion of it due to a bad experience but I see some people say they enjoy it. If you like it and it's voluntary and he's careful then go for it." She's right: you might do it and not like it, but if you want to try it, you should totally feel free to try it. Make sure you and your partner are being safe and careful. Image Source: iStock
Are you going to try any of these anal sex tips? Tell us in the comments!