We talk a lot about sex toys here at Gurl, but we really only ever talk about the idea of using toys when masturbating. I mean, that makes sense! How else would you use a sex toy… right? Actually, there are a lot more ways to use a dildo than to just do it yourself. They aren’t called “sex” toys only for solo sex, you know. You might think there is no need for sex toys if you have a partner to get it on with but, no offense, you’re wrong again. There are actually ways to incorporate your sex toys into your sex life, and if you’re not trying them, then you are seriously missing out!
Maybe you have used sex toys while getting it on with your bae, and you’re looking for a different way to want spice things up. That’s cool! There are a few ways to do this and they can seriously change the way you and bae have sex. Are you unable to orgasm during penetrative sex? Don’t stress, using a sex toy while you have intercourse can help you have an orgasm and up your sex game from great to amazing. Don’t believe me? Just try out these tips for incorporating sex toys into your sex life. They can be used as foreplay, during sex, or really any way you want them to be used. Not to sound like an infomercial for these, but the possibilities are pretty endless.
Try A Vibrating RingOkay, there are sex toys besides dildos and clitoral vibrators. You can use a vibrating ring, like this one from Amazon for $5.75. Assuming your partner has a penis, they can wear this for a ~crazy~ intense feeling for both you and them! If it's angled right, it will hit your clitoris and vibrate on their penis, so you'll BOTH get a crazy-good feeling. Source
Try Missionary With Sex ToyThis one is called a "twist on a classic" since it is, indeed, a classic sex position with a little addition. Lay down on your back and have your bae kneel between your legs. You can use a dildo or clitoral vibrator between the two of you for an extra "umph" or "buzz," if you want to get technical. Source
Try Doggy Style With a DildoThis one might be a little ~intense~, but if you're up for the challenge, you should try it. Have your partner enter you from behind (if you need help with doggy style, check this out!) while you are on your hands and knees. Then, use a vibrator on your clit. Because of the amount of nerves being stimulated, the feeling might be a little overwhelming, so be sure to take breaks if you need! Source
Or Try It On Your SideIf you want to switch it up a little bit (literally) lay on your side and have bae lay behind you, kind of like spooning. Since spooning sex can be a little difficult, this is an easy way to get in the habit of doing it this way, but with toys instead. You can easily adjust a dildo or vibrator so that it is at a comfortable angle for you. Source
Use It With Your Clothes OnAs a form of foreplay, Cosmo suggests using the vibrator before you and your bae are even naked. It will get both of you excited to get it on, without actually being naked. That leaves a lot to the imagination, so when you are actually getting ready to do it, you'll be more excited than ever. You can tease your partner with it by using it over their clothes, and have them do the same to you.
Try the Hot SeatIf you and bae want to get super close, sit on your bae's lap, and aim a dildo or vibrator at your genitals. It's basically as if you were having sex in doggy style, then decide to sit. You can use the vibrator inside you, or on your clitorus, or even have your bae do it for you. Source
Masturbate With EachotherIf you each have your own sex toy, feel free to get it on with each other...separately. Get it? You can use toys on yourself and have your partner watch, or the other way around. It's a good form of foreplay for you and your bae, or just a way to try something different!
Are you going to use any of these sex toy tips? Tell us in the comments!