What is your favorite part about sex? It is the ~big O~ at the end? The fact that it never seems to end? Or do you wish that your sex sesh would last longer than it does? You’re not alone, trust me. A lot of girls want their partner to last longer during sex, or they want to last longer themselves. There is no shame in that! Sex should be fun and exciting, and you don’t want something that awesome to be over within six seconds, right? I mean, it’s fine if you do! But there are certain ways that you extend your sexual experience. After all, there really isn’t a rush, right?
If you and your bae want to have sex for hours at a time (okay, maybe not HOURS, but you get it), there are some simple sex positions that will actually make it easier for both of you to last longer. The key is to try out positions that feel good, but won’t tire you out. Sure, having some crazy, standing up sex sounds fun, but how long does that really last? Not long at all, since leg cramps are definitely a thing that happen. If you want to actually enjoy sex and let it go on for a little bit longer, take a look at these easy sex positions that will totally make you last longer in bed. Have fun!
The SpoonThis position creates what is called "shallow penetration" AKA your partner won't get over-stimulated and finish quickly. You can start having sex in the spooning position while you and bae are "Netflix and chilling." You can go from spooning to sex pretty quickly! All you need to do is have your partner penetrate you from behind as you are both laying down on your sides. It will help you both last longer, and when you're done, you'll already be in the spooning position, which is perfect for your after-sex hangs. Source
Side By SideA good way to make sex last longer is to not have to work as hard as you would doing some ~exotic~ position. This position requires minimal physical activity, which means you won't waste too much energy and want to quit early on. You and your bae will lay on your sides, facing each other, and then you will wrap your leg over theirs as they penetrate you. Source
Doggy StyleYou've probably heard of this one before, but it really does work. It's simple enough so that you and your partner won't get too tired and want to stop early, but it's a little more exciting than missionary. Kneel on your hands and knees as your partner grabs you from behind. Simple but super effective. It's also a great position for penetrating your g-spot. Source
SuperwomanThis one is similar to doggy style, but you actually have your legs out like you're flying in the air like a superhero. Get it? Anyway, your bae will be standing, but they don't have to support all of your weight, so it will be a lot easier for them to last a while. Simply lay down on your stomach on top of your bed and have your bae grip on to your legs from behind. Source
Criss CrossedYou're not going to want to have sex for hours if you're in a complicated standing position. This one is good for couples who want to get ~intimate~, since you and bae are super close to each other. Sit with your legs crossed on top of your partner while you rock back and forth. It's guaranteed to make sex last super long. Source
Girl On TopIf you're in control, you can help things last longer. You can go at your own pace and start to slow down if you feel like you're getting too tired. Have your bae bend their legs so that you can lean back on them for extra support, then go as fast or as slow as you want. You want to be comfortable if you're going to be going at it for a while, so be sure to take it slow if you want! There is no rush. Source
The LaunchpadThis is another position that lets you both be in control, which is really good for pacing yourself. You bend your knees and your partner can hold onto your hips while you have control over how deep they penetrate you, since you're resting your feet on their chest. Source
Would you try any of these positions? What did we miss? Tell us in the comments!