The drama of an on-again/off-again relationship is exhausting: saying it’s the last time you’re breaking up, attempting to move on, running back together because you can’t let each other go, and low key living for the drama of it all. This might be exciting, in a weird and destructive way, but it’s actually unhealthy and annoys everyone around you. Eventually these on/off relationships stop, but it often takes a really long time to get to that point. This is mainly because you’re both so used to the gaps in your relationship that getting back together feels natural, and because of that, it can be really tough to identify the signs that your on and off relationship is finally over for good.
Now, it’s time for some cold, hard truths: love isn’t enough to make something work if it’s truly broken. It’s true that you can’t help who you love, but you can stop making trash decisions. And yeah, one of those decisions might be to put yourself through this crap over and over again. Stop putting others first and really put yourself first for a second. Is this what you want? Really? You want to sign up for the heaven (it’s relative) and hell (it’s real) of breaking up and reuniting constantly? Nobody needs that in their life. Need some clue that things are done? Here are a few signs that your relationship is over:
Are you in an on again/off again relationship? What makes them so appealing? How do you stop? Let us know in the comments!
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