Hey, sex is fun. It’s super exciting, and you get to ~feel~ awesome things with someone you like, which is pretty awesome. But it can also get tiring. You know how people in the movies seem to have hour-long, earth shattering sex? HOW do they do that without getting exhausted? Sex really is a workout, especially when you’re the one doing the work – like when you’re on top. Being on top during sex can be intimidating and adventurous, not to mention tough to get through for more than, like, a minute… especially if you’re lazy AF. But what if you’re tired and you still want to be on top? No worries, I’ve got you covered!
Being on top is a whole different experience than most other positions, which means it can get a little complicated. You need more stamina, AKA energy, to be able to last longer. And we all know longer sex is better,right?( Well, sometimes, anyway). If you want to learn how to get on top and do an impressive job without completely tiring yourself out, read on for these easy tips on how to be on top during sex. You’ll thank me later!
Have Them Help YouYou don't have to do it all on your own, obviously. Put your BF's hands on your waist to help guide you, so you don't wear yourself out within the first two minutes. This still puts you in control of how fast you go, but you get a little extra help from your bae so you don't collapse on him. Image Source: iStock
Don't Go Too FastThere is no need to rush! When you go super fast, you get tired more easily. Take it slow, and switch up positions if being on top gets tiring – you can always make your way back up there. Having sex works out a ton of different muscles that you probably don't normally use. You'll want to take it slow so you don't hurt yourself. Image Source: iStock
Try The Face OffThis position is a little bit easier than getting on top while your boyfriend is laying down because it’s slightly more sturdy. Have him sit at the edge of the bed (or whatever surface) and then literally sit on top.You're still in control, but your bae can use their hands to help you, which will mean less work for you. Check out the Face-Off here.
Switch It UpJust because you get on top at one point during sex doesn’t mean you need to stay there forever. Do only what you can! Offer to be on top for a portion, then switch positions to something a little more lazy-girl approved so that you can get it going for longer. Image Source: iStock
Try The CowgirlWe all know of the reverse cowgirl, but that seems pretty intense for any lazy girl. Try the regular cowgirl instead. It involves your partner using their legs to help support you so you're not doin' it all by yourself. You can lean back on their legs to help relieve some of your weight. Check it out here.
Or The Cowgirl's HelperOkay, maybe even the is cowgirl too intense for you. No judgment here! Try the cowgirl's helper. It's the same thing as the cowgirl, but you can use your hands to support yourself by putting them on his chest. It's actually really easy! Check out the Cowgirl's Helper here.
Grip Onto SomethingBesides getting support from your partner, you can also get support from something else. Try gripping the headboard or the wall. It will help you keep your balance so you don't just completely fall into your bae's body. That would be...awkward. Image Source: iStock
Are you going to try any of these tips? Tell us in the comments!