As you know, we looooove talking about masturbation here at Gurl. It’s a good way to get to explore your body and get to know a little bit more about yourself, which is pretty important, IMO. But, sometimes, you want to switch it up a bit and try something new. You’ve already done all those crazy masturbation positions, and even those are starting to feel too routine, so… now what? Well, I have an answer: sex toys. You’ve heard about them, but maybe you’ve been a little too nervous to actually go out and buy one, or you don’t know which one to actually get. Well, you’ve come to the right place to figure out exactly which sex toy you should buy.
Sex toys aren’t just for sex with a partner, despite what the name might make you think. They’re ideal for solo play! Sex toys are a fun and pretty cheap way to spice up your “you time.” Recently, user ggunnels92 came to our boards to get a little advice about buying her first sex toy. She said, “I am about to turn eighteen and I plan to buy my first sex toy, but I have no clue what to get. Does anyone have any suggestions for me??” If you, like ggunnels92, want to buy a sex toy but don’t really know where to start, don’t panic. There are a lot of options, but you want to be sure to get one that’s right for you. Check out some suggestions from some of our girls on what kind of sex toy to buy if you’re a newbie.
Start Out SimpleWaterbaby said," You could start out with a simple dildo or vibrator. Those are the most common ones, I believe." You can get a basic dildo or vibrator online or in a sex store. You can even find a cute and cheap little vibrator, like this Fun Fingertipe Vibe for $8.95, which is perfect for a beginner who doesn't want to spend too much money.
And Start Out Smallfelicityallen said,"I'm thinking of getting a regular vibrator, you can use it on the clit or the g-spot, but you should probably get a pretty small one at first. Anyway, even if it doesn't fit in, it still vibrates! Win-win." She's right: you definitely don't want to use something too big, it can be painful! Start by getting something small. Even if it doesn't fit inside your vagina, you can use it on your clit, which will be just as good! You can get the Magic Touch Waterproof Bullet Vibrator here for $12.00.
Use A ToothbrushTammyhehl said, "I use my electric toothbrush. It works great and I don't have to hide anything from my mom, who's the biggest SNOOP!!!" If you have an electric toothbrush, there's no need to buy a vibrator! You can also easily buy one from a grocery store if you're worried about one of your parents finding a sex toy. Image Source: iStock
Try A Bullet Vibratortwinniewinnie said, "I started off with a simple bullet vibrator. Great for clit stimulation. And then I progressed to a basic vibrator. And now I have the "butterfly kiss" vibrator which is a gentler version of the rabbit vibrator." A bullet vibrator is a tiny and discrete vibrator that won't cost you too much money, but will still get the job done. You can try this Lovehoney bullet vibrator for $12.99.
Look Into Buying A Rabbit Vibratornocturnalmistress said, "I bought a rabbit vibrator. It has many different vibration patterns and runs off of a AA battery. I'd recommend it for a first time buyer." A rabbit vibrator is a little more expensive (and bigger) than a bullet vibrator, but definitely for you if you want to try something super intense. You can get this Posh Rabbit Vibrator for $19.72 on Amazon.
Or A Magic Wandrockingchick said, " My favorite toy is the hitachi magic wand and it gives me some great orgasms." If you're looking for a high quality vibrator and you're not worried about spending too much money, try to Magic Wand. It looks almost exactly like an microphone, TBH, but has really good reviews. You can get one for $59.99 from Babeland. I'm not entirely sure how it works, but I know many girls swear by them.
Get Creative With What You HaveCuriousMeMB said, "As far as I am concerned, my hands are my best friends 🙂 But, you may want to try one of those small back massagers that you can buy in any supermarket that look like an octopus with just three arms, not to mention bathtub faucet" You don't have to buy a sex toy! You can use things you already have, like a back massager (like this one from Amazon) or even use the faucet of your tub if you don't want to go out and buy one.