7 Tips That Will Keep You From Being Boring During Sex

Sex: it’s fun and exciting. But, just like anything else you love, if you do it too much it can get a little… boring. That doesn’t mean that you are bad at it! It just means that maybe it’s time to try something new. Recently, Gurl user bebebaker came to our boards, hoping to get some tips on how to have better, less-boring sex. She wrote, “My boyfriend says that I’m lazy during sex. He says I lay there. Just looking for some advice about how I can change that and be less ‘boring'”

Another user, brooksy42, was also looking to switch up her sex life. She wrote, “So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 11 months and we have amazing sex the only thing is its always the same old thing. I am looking for a way to spice things up in the bed room for us. Do you ladies have any suggestions?” Of course, there are a few ways to switch out of your normal sex routine. Take a look at some tips from our users on how to make your sex life more ~steamy~.


Switch Positions

Waterbaby said, "Try being on top"

Doing the same position over and over again gets old, fast. Try something new. If you're used to him being on top, you get on top. Always doing missionary? Try doggy style. It doesn't have to be anything crazy or out of this world, it just needs to be new for you guys. Here are some ideas even lazy girls will love.

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Communicate More

Sweettayla said, "Ask him what he expects"

You don't have to guess what your partner wants. A good way to spice things up is to ask your bae if there's anything they want to try. It sounds corny, but communicating with each other is the best way to have better sex. Find out what they're looking for, and talk about what you're looking for, and you'll figure it out from there.

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Tell Them What Feels Good

SueAnn said, "Move around, grind on him, talk to him and tell him what you want and what feels good to you."

Let your parter know what you want! Again, communication is key. This time, instead of having a serious discussion, do it while you're hooking up. Dirty talk doesn't have to be porn-worthy. It can be as simple as saying, "Yes, more" or "That's amazing."

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Try A Sex Toy

Scuzz said, "Go to the sex store and pick out a new toy, game, or other item to add a fresh spin in the bedroom."

For something completely different, try buying a sex toy for your an your partner. It can be a little intimidating, but check out this easy guide for beginners if you are curious. These aren't just for solo sex (although they're great for that too) - some couples swear by sex toys in the bedroom.

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Try A Different Kind Of Foreplay

talia2009 said, "Have you considered footplay? I know a lot of people think it's gross, but seriously they don't know what they're missing! Ask him to try sucking your toes, see what ya think"

Hey, if you never try, you'll never know! You might enjoy footplay or some other type of foreplay that you aren't used to. It's a good idea to try out things and see what you like! It's also okay if you try them out and discover that you don't like them. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with!

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Try Somewhere New

toranightengale said, "Don't always do it in the bedroom, do it in the kitchen, shower, front room, couch, on the table etc.. Try new things too. Maybe hair pulling, or spanking or try out new things and explore each other."

You aren't limited to just having sex on a bed! Do it somewhere else if possible, like a car or another room in one of your houses. Just be careful! Don't get arrested for public sex!

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Wear Some Lingerie

sunset_drmz81 said, "Also get some new lingerie. I know how expensive they can be, so sometimes I will actually go through my closet and put a sexy outfit together that he hasn't seen yet."

Switch it up and buy some new lingerie or a outfit that makes you feel good and confident. It can really change how you feel about your body and help you enjoy sex even more!

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Are you going to try any of these tips? Which did we forget? Tell us in the comments!

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