7 Girls Give Tips On How To Be Sexier While Giving A Blowjob

Being self-conscious can be the worst during “normal” situations. Being self-conscious during sex is actually the worst. You want to look sexy and confident, but you also want to be comfortable and have a good time. Sometimes, these things can contradict each other. How can you look sexy when you feel like you don’t really know what you’re doing? This is especially true when you’re giving a dude a blowjob, which puts all of the pressure on you. The expectations are so high! Blowjobs are a hard task on their own, so the added pressure of looking good while doing it is not something that girls look forward too.

Recently, user stef123 went to our boards and asked a very important question. She wrote, “I just gave my first bj but I don’t think it was that great (even though my bf said it was). How can I do it better and be sexier while doing it?” It’s really important to know that being comfortable should be your number one priority. So, If you ever feel a little bad about the situation, or uncomfortable giving a blow job, you should definitely stop. Another thing to realize is that most girls are way too hard on themselves! You are probably doing a good job, or else the guy would ask you to stop. Blowjobs, and sex in general, seem really complicated but only get easier as you learn to be more comfortable and open-minded with it. Here is some advice our girls gave on how to look sexier while giving a blow job or having sex. 

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  • Ashley

    You know this website used to empower girls/women. Now it is some smut website that is comparible to Cosmopoltian. What kind of website fixates on how to look sexy while giving a boy a blowjob. How about, how to be more successful in school, or how to get the job that you want, or how to feel good about yourself.

    • jbooth1031

      We do write those articles! We also write sex advice articles. Because it’s possible to be smart and a hard worker AND to want to enjoy sex as much as possible 🙂