Sex: Everyone does it differently. Some people like being on top, some people like being on bottom, some people prefer standing up…. it’s all up to you. But sometimes, you don’t quite know how to do it; “it” being a new position you want to try. That’s okay! You aren’t born knowing how to have sex, that would be weird. It takes time and practice. Sometimes, you jut need advice. For instance, how do you successfully have sex while being on top?
User OmgItsRira has similar questions. She posted this on our boards recently: “I’ve attempted riding on top with my guy twice now and both times he’s popped out and I hurt him (thankfully nothing serious.) Needless to say: my stroke game suuuuucks. In what is perhaps the most graphic thread I started, yes, I’m asking all of you ladies how to ride dick. We both enjoy it… until we end up punching each other in the genitals. I should also point out that he also moves along with me.”
Having sex in new positions can be scary. Trying anything new is intimidating, but especially when it comes to sex. Another user, pewpewser, was also intimidated by the act. She posted, “I’m uncomfortable with being on top during sex (cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, blah) and I never really know what to do when I’m up there. Can anyone help me with any tips and tricks?” Lucky for these girls, there are many “sex hacks” that can help sex be a little bit more easy and fun. Here are some tips that our users shared.
Have Him Sit UpWaterBaby said, "Having him sit up helps, like it helps keep you in place where you can't really go up enough to give you a chance to pop out." Image Source: iStock
Work On Your HipsSweetTayla said, "Work on moving your hips back and forth more than up and down bouncing on him, my bf hates that. It's like most positions though, you're not an instant expert, you need to try it a few times to figure out what feels best." Image Source: iStock
Have Him Helpnicolelouise94 said, "Something else that helps is when my boyfriend grips my hips and kind of 'holds me down' against him so there's more friction, if that makes sense? You have to be patient with it, but as soon as you've had practice and you know how to position yourself on him right, you're in for a treat!" Image Source: iStock
All About Balancingalegnatm said,"Sometimes I get my feet under me so I am in a squat position, that way I am more hovering over him than anything, this works better on a bed and I like to lean back on my hands to balance myself and it makes the angle sharper which feels better too." Image Source: iStock
Try A Differnt PositionShellyB said, "For me it feels physically good but it doesn't push my buttons psychologically...I like missionary and doggy!" Image Source: iStock
Make Sure You're Comfortablestarfigs said, "It's important that you feel comfortable and not nervous, as that could easily prevent you from having an orgasm/enjoying yourself to the fullest. A lot of girls worry about how their bodies look when they're on top of guys, but you totally shouldn't." Image Source: iStock
Experimentunderlyinggirl said, "I was so nervous when I went on top the first time! You literally have to just go for it and experiment what works and feels good for you both. I usually tense my muscles and bounce up and down." Image Source: iStock
Have you tried any of these tips? Which ones work? Tell us in the comments!