Can You Make Your Own Dildo?

Hi Heather!

I’m a young 14-year-old girl and I want a dildo, but I know I can’t buy one. I don’t have a gift store like Spencer’s where I live, so I really don’t know what to do. I already tried masturbating with my fingers, but I really want to try something different and thought of a dildo. Vibrators don’t really work for me, so I need something new. Any suggestions on how to make a dildo or what can come close to one?

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I think it’s so great that you are exploring your sexuality and your own body without shame. It’s awesome that you’re trying out new things! But as much as I applaud you for your, ahem, creativity with the idea of a DIY dildo, I have to advise against putting household objects in your vagina. So, can you make your own dildo? Uh, I mean, you can, but I wouldn’t recommend it.

Here’s the thing: your vag is super sensitive and so many things can disrupt the delicate balance going on down there. This means that if something isn’t sterilized properly, it can easily make you irritated or give you an infection. Besides that, a DIY dildo could possibly hurt you – it wasn’t designed to go into that part of your body, meaning that it probably shouldn’t. You’re much better off finding a place where you can buy a real dildo. You can look online – there are some websites that will send to sex toys to someone’s house disguised as something else – but if you don’t have a credit card, I can see how that could be an issue.

Spencer’s isn’t the only place that sells dildos! Do a little research – are there any safe sex shops in your area? If so, go check it out, just please be careful and don’t go anywhere shady. If there are really no options for buying one, what about using your vibrator as a gentle dildo and not making it vibrate?

If that doesn’t work, then your not-so-great options are these: use a phallic shaped vegetable or fruit, like a banana or a zucchini and put a condom on it, making sure it covers the whole thing that is going inside of you. Pick an object that isn’t too big and isn’t going to hurt, then just go slow and be gentle. Remember, this wasn’t made for your vagina! If you are going to go against this request and use any random phallic-shaped object in your house, I’m begging you: sterilize it before you use it, and put a condom over it, then be gentle, especially if it’s something hard. Take care of your vagina, even when masturbating.

take care,
Heather

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