15 Little Signs You’re Actually Too Insecure

No matter how often we’re all encouraged to be confident in ourselves, insecurity runs rampant in human beings as a whole. We all have moments of insecurity, whether we glance in the mirror and feel like we’re not looking our hottest, get a few bad grades and start to think of ourselves as stupid and worthless, or get dumped twice in a row and wonder if we’re even lovable at all. It’s impossible to be sure of yourself 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

That said, there is a very big difference between being a healthy level of insecure and being way too insecure. Having no self-esteem will negatively affect your life in so many ways. High levels of insecure can make it hard to maintain relationships with anyone, actually achieve your potential, or do the things you truly want to do. Being too self-conscious can make you painfully shy and awkward, or it can do the opposite and make you a bragging, narcissist no one can stand to be around.

But how do you know if you’re at an okay level of insecure or if you need confidence lessons ASAP? Let’s start by going through these little signs of insecurity, taken from this Ask Reddit thread. Want to know if people view as insecure or confident? Read on!

Which of these signs of insecurity do you think you do? What did we forget to include? Tell me in the comments!

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