10 Signs A Guy Is Taking Advantage Of You

It can be hard to recognize when someone is taking advantage of you, especially when that someone is a guy you really like. We all want to believe the best about people, even more so when it comes to our crush or our significant other. Sometimes, our gut notices these signs and tells us that something is wrong, and we choose to ignore it because we don’t really want to believe it.

No one deserves to be taken advantage of, and if the person you trust is doing that to you, you need to leave the relationship. Sticking it out and hoping it will change will never make things better – it will only make them worse. Let me give you a quick example. I have a friend who has been dating a guy for a very long time. He’s been taking advantage of her from the beginning and now, even after years of being together, he still won’t make things official or even do anything nice for her. It’s really depressing to watch.

You deserve better than that! Look out for these 10 signs a guy is taking advantage of you, and if he is? Kick him to the curb.

Do you think your guy is taking advantage of you? What do you disagree with? Tell me in the comments.

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  • Janet

    The guy I’m talking to loves me shows respect n cares etc.. But he doesn’t ask me out tho.. He tells me he loves me and I say it back and it’s like we’re in a relationship but we’re not. He lives in Mexico and I’m in California. I have met him, that’s why we talk, is it because of distance? I thought love can conqour all? I’m confused.

  • Sam Moses

    Its true but most of those signs could be from what a guy observe from a girl, which will make him post a sign like that to make the girl have impression of asking what borders him, and he will have chance to express his mine.

  • Emily

    Hey I just read your article because I was wondering why me and my boy friend always only hook up the thing is he isn’t the other things you said he’s really nice and always helps me when I need help he’s very giving and just gave me a promise ring but resently the only thing we do is hook up I really like this guy alot what should I do

    • Megan

      I honestly would talk to him about it. I have a friend who noticed the same thing as well, she would go over to his house and they would watch a movie and then end up in bed together. He is really sweet and none of those things, so when she told him they should take it a little slower or plan other things to do, he was willing. They even waited a couple of weeks/ a month before they hooked up again and she said it just felt right and it actually felt better/ more special. So yeah just don’t be afraid to ask him- if he really does care about you he will consider a solution and you guys can figure it out together. Good luck (: