8 Reasons Your First Time Having Sex Will (Probably) Suck

I don’t want to freak you guys out or anything, but losing your virginity is not exactly the most magical moment of your entire life. In fact, it’s generally full of cringe-worthy awkward moments and lots of confusion. That’s not to say that everyone’s first time is the worst, though. I have heard fairytale-like stories about the loss of virginity that almost seem too perfect to be real. If that happens to you, that’s awesome!

But I don’t want you all to feel like your first time has to be just like something out of a movie because, chances are, it won’t be. It’s better to be faced with this harsh reality now, then after the fact when you’re sitting there feeling like you did something wrong.

The good news? Sex can only get better! It’s one of those things that improves as you get older and become more experienced, and so sometimes, bad sex is necessary in order to learn what not to do. See? Your first time might not be fantastic, but it can still be important! If you don’t believe me, here are 8 reasons your first time having sex will suck… probably. Maybe you’ll be one of the lucky few who escapes that.

Do you agree or disagree? What was your first time having sex like? Tell me in the comments.

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  • Itz Potato

    I have a question that I would feel safer if a fellow teen could answer rather than the Internet. Do you think I have to get be completely naked the first time? I would like to maybe grow out my breasts a little more because they’re sort of small. I also would like to ask, where can you buy condoms and is it required for oral sex? I’m still a young teen but am learning about sex so I can be educated in the future.

    • Anna Pelch

      I’m 14 and yes I know it’s young and yes I know sexual activity at this age is dangerous and yes I know I could get pregnant, but it’s rare living in a small town and maybe a city idk and only being half a virgin. By half a virgin I mean I’ve only gone up to oral. For the first time or any time you don’t have to be completely naked though I do feel like you should be doing it with someone who you are comfortable being completely naked with. Condoms are available at almost any store or pharmacy including places like Walgreens and maybe Walmart, but pretty much anywhere pregnancy tests are available at the same places and are often located next to condoms. You don’t need a condom for oral sex since it all takes place using you’re mouth. Also be sure you’re comfortable with and trust whoever you do things with. If you have any other questions kik me it’s pelchanna and I’ll answer any question. Hope I helped.

  • Eve

    It didn’t hurt at all the first time I had sex, at first I was self conscious because I thought my vagina wasn’t as tight as it should be (Looking back that makes no sense), but now I’m thankful it didn’t hurt.

  • iftheysmile

    It would be nice to read an article about the good things that can happen. My first time was with my best friend, and it’s still one of my best memories, even though parts of it were overwhelming, some unexpected good stuff happened too.