November is a great month to take note of what is working and what isn’t. It’s nice not to have to be responsible for the little things, but if you have to rely on others, you sacrifice your freedom. It’s best to learn how to do what needs doing for yourself so you don’t get tangled in unhealthy dependency. You are an adventurer. Be free and responsible, which is actually a form of freedom too. We all have to grow up sooner or later, sooner really is better. Once your own life is really working, you can be the example you are meant to be for the rest of us.