10 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Too Jealous

A little bit of jealousy is normal in every relationship. It’s hard to find someone who never, ever gets jealous, not even once in a while, and that’s okay. But there is definitely such a thing as too much jealousy, and that can absolutely jeopardize your relationship. When someone gets too jealous, they also become controlling and possessive. Both behaviors can easily lead to an abusive relationship, but even if they don’t go that far, they can certainly lead to a lot of fighting and unhappiness.

How do you know if your boyfriend is way too jealous or just jealous enough? It can be hard to figure out, especially because most guys won’t come out and say they’re jealous. They’ll try to beat around the bush and act like they don’t care, which makes you second guess yourself. I’ve been there, girl. So, here are 10 signs that your boyfriend is too jealous. I’m not saying you have to immediately dump a dude who’s like this – but you definitely should do something about this.

Do you think your boyfriend is too jealous? How would you deal with it? What did I forget? Tell me in the comments.

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  • inky teke

    I just got with this guy that I like and enjoy very much not too long ago, and yesterday we had gotten into a huge argument, because I was having an afterword lunch with my best friend that’s considered transgender. I spoke to my BF about this beforehand, and he said “alright that’s fine”. I couldn’t call him back like I had promises because my phone had died during the drive back home, so I waited for my phone to charge before calling him back. I said sorry about not calling him, and he got upset because he thought I had lunch with my friend for an hour, and trans or not he was uncomfortable of me hanging out with my best friend and kept accusing me of secretly cheating on him and all. He wanted to break up for something that I didn’t even do. I got so upset, and barked at him for thinking like that. He also kept denying the fact that he was jealous. He then googled up that the #1 way a girl cheats is to say their friend is “gay”, and I thought that was pathetic of him to have done that. I was furious, and he said “no wonder you were single for so long”. I then hung up on him and just cried it off. Though 5 min later, he calls me twice and tells me how stupid he was and how sorry he was to have said and acted like that–he tried to make things all about rainbows and daisies and again AFTER he just ruined the shit out of the relationship that was blossoming. The next day though I forgave him, but I have a flag on him now, so just in case he does any of this, he’s not gonna have a pretty time hearing me bark at him again.

  • Avisshek

    and what is the sign of possessive Girl friend

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  • charmaineCowan

    mu boyfriend won’t let me outside