Do Blondes Really Have More Fun?

I’ve heard time and time again that blondes have more fun. As a brunette, that kind of hurts. But apparently brunettes are smarter, so I had that going for me. Except, girls with curly hair aren’t taken as seriously, which put me back on the outs. And then I realized that hair color and texture has nothing to do with who you are as a person or your abilities to succeed in life.

This week on the message boards, you’re talking about whether or not hair color really matters. Do blondes have more fun than everyone else? Does hair color affect your personality?

Let’s see what y’all had to say:

Gay-Gurl asked:
“An age old question: Do people in general feel themselves more sexually/physically/personally attracted to blondes, brunettes, redheads, black haired women or men?”

Sabbi696 said:
“I’ve generally been more attracted to guys with darker hair. As for women, I don’t know. I am attracted to blondes, brunettes and redheads. I don’t really have a preference. I am a natural blonde (dirty blonde, but right now it’s colored lighter). I’m not a fan of my natural hair color. I mean I deal with it, but I don’t really like the ashy color of it. I would much prefer to go lighter blonde. As for what people think of me, I don’t think that necessarily has to do with hair color. I don’t get compliments on my hair, as much as I do my personality.”

missteenstyle said:
“Seriously I don’t even see a difference. For me, its ALL about the dark haired beauties!!!”

lisa-mayne said:
“I don’t think the color of your hair has any real bearing on your success in life or how much others are attracted to you!”

3Becca said:
“It totally depends on the person! I personally think that the color that comes from your roots is the best and most attractive hair color, and everyone looks good in their natural hair color. So no, I really couldn’t care less about hair colors in general. I like dark colors, brown in every shade, black, blonde in different shades, red in different shades. My boyfriend has black hair though so I guess I sort of kind of am more attracted to that? Haha but seriously all natural colors are beautiful.”

I don’t know how many different ways I can say this, but no, your hair color does not have any impact on you as a person. You might feel more comfortable in a certain hair color, and that could certainly make you a more confident person. But really, hair color is just the color that your hair is and that’s it.

As far as what people are typically more attracted to, that depends on the person. Everyone is attracted to different things. I’ve dated blondes and brunettes. I’ve dated tall guys and short guys. I’ve dated guys with blue eyes and brown eyes. Some people have “types” and some people don’t. It’s all on a case by case basis. Whatever you’re attracted to is what’s right for you!

What do you think? Do you think hair color matters? Tell us in the comments!

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  • amber

    Well i am a natural brunette and just recently i died my hair blonde but ever since i did I’ve been getting more compliments on my hair and I’ve came out of my shell i used to not talk to anyone because i was so shy now I’m a social butterfly but i don’t think it really matters

  • Kaye

    I’ve spent most of my adult life going back and forth between black and red, but with a brief period of platinum in the middle. I can say beyond a shadow of a doubt that I was approached by men at least twice as often when I was blonde. I definitely didn’t display more confidence at the time. It’s not like I rinsed out the bleach and instantly turned into a sexpot. I actually felt like I wasn’t quite myself, which one would think would make me look insecure and less attractive. I realize this is entirely anecdotal, but if I had to guess, I would say that my sudden allure was completely based on the stereotypes these guys had bought into about blondes being dumb, easy party girls. I wasn’t attracting quality, but I was definitely attracting quantity when it came to a certain type of guy.

  • Nia

    Update: Black girls with natural hair have more.

  • Beccy

    Just noticed that the question asked doesn’t even mention if blondes have more fun than everyone else. It just talks about which color hair people are more attracted to. The part that refers to whether blondes have more fun is just in the first paragraph. I don’t really think the name of this article fits it. But maybe it’s just me!

    • Caitlin Corsetti

      The title of the message board post if you click through to it is “Blondes have more fun?” which is why I used it.