10 Tips On How To Tell Your Boyfriend You’re Ready To Have Sex

Whether you’re a virgin or a little more experienced, telling your boyfriend that you’re ready to have sex for the first time can be nerve-wrecking. Letting him know that you want to be that intimate with him can leave you feeling vulnerable and maybe even a little insecure… especially if it’s something you guys have never talked about.

But it’s okay! Talking about having sex for the first time is something every couple goes through at some point. The conversation might be a little uncomfortable, but it’s not as bad as it seems. In fact, sometimes it’s super simple. So, if you’re ready to go all the way with your man, and you’re not sure how to let him know, keep reading. Here are 10 tips on how to tell your boyfriend you’re ready to have sex.

Have you ever had to have this conversation with your boyfriend? What did you do? What did I forget? Tell me in the comments!


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  • Justine

    I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a little over 4 months now & I really want to go all the way. We’ve done things well actually just him he likes to go down on me a lot but won’t let me return the favor. We’re talked about going all the way before & he said that hes ready also and want to do it and we planed that the next time we’re together it was gonna happen. That’s was a month ago and nothing. I really don’t know what to do. We’re together most of the time but it’s always the same just him go down on me & making out for hours. I’ve been fed up and tried to make the move and started putting my hands in his pants & I actually grabbed his penis while things were getting heated just he just stopped kissing me & said I don’t feel like it & just went to bed. I really hope it nothing wrong with me. What should i do???

  • Kyla

    I am a 12 year old girl who has a boyfriend… but is attracted to my neighbor. I have known my neighbor longer than my boyfriend and want to have sex with my neighbor for my first sex, but don’t know how to tell him I want to! Plz help!

  • zoey

    Hey peoples!!! My boyfriend thought I was joking when i told him I wanted to have sex, and it took me a lot of courage to ask him. Can I get some input from guys on how to tell him? Im completely in-experienced at this.

  • boris the animal

    Shut up Tony

  • Em

    Not every guy is an oversexed male. My boyfriend and I had this conversation a couple weeks ago and I was the one ready for more and he wasn’t ready. We had an honest conversation and now we are closer than we ever have been. For you to generalize all males in a way that is rude and offensive, it shows more about you than any other guy.

  • Nat

    Wow. Can’t believe Gurl moderators actually let that comment slip through the cracks.
    Disgustingly ignorant. Tons of guys are not ready to have sex with anything that moves 100% of the time. Tons of guys are asexual, tons of guys like to take it slow, tons of guys want to spend some time in a relationship first. And if you think about sex literally 100% of the time then perhaps you have a problem.
    Just because you are willing to have sex at all times with anyone, doesn’t mean all guys are. Arrogance at it’s finest.

  • Tony

    Is this website serious? Of course the guy wants to have sex… That’s what guys think about all the time. Hell, last night I had sex and when she left, I tugged one off. Then when I woke up 4 hrs later at 9am I started to tug one off but fell asleep. I woke up an hour later to finish that one off. Then like three hours later I had to tug another off….
    like I said that’s all we think about. As a matter of fact if your man isn’t placing it in there right you could always give me a call if you are in the northwest Ohio area. Look I won’t even get all picky. One of the girls I messed with was a big nerd and she had the worlds tightest snatch… That one was special. I still tug one off to that little pinhole of a snatch. Anyways, I’m probably gonna comment more truth on some of these pages. Tony C!