Reader Hookup Confession: I Was The Other Woman… Accidentally

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This story is more uncomfortable and awkward than embarrassing, but here goes. A few years ago, I went out for the night with one of my best friends (we’ll call her B) and her guy friends. It was one of the guys’ birthdays (we’ll call him R), and we were all having a great time. R started flirting with me a lot, and we spent most of the night talking and flirting. He was cute, and when I asked B about him, she told me to go for it.

An hour later, R made a move and kissed me. We spent the rest of the night making out, and he even took my number and said all this stuff about how much he liked me and how I wasn’t like other girls he knew. At the end of the night, I was going home with B and was undecided about R, so I just laughed it off and B and I went to sleep.

The next morning, while B and I were laughing about the night before, I brought up R. She suddenly got serious and said, “Oh, I forgot to tell you… he has a girlfriend. She’s actually one of my good friends.” I sat there in shock, feeling horrible, and asked her why she hadn’t thought to tell me that the night before. As she was apologizing, her friend (R’s girlfriend!!) called her to ask how the night went and “if R was behaving.” To my complete shock, B said, “Actually, R sort of… made out with my friend. But she feels REALLY bad, she didn’t know he had a girlfriend, it was all his fault.

I have never felt so embarrassed and guilty before in my life. B and I started fighting, B and her friend started fighting, and then B’s friend immediately broke up with R… so R and B started fighting! The girl even tried adding me on Facebook and was sending all these threats through B for me. R must have told her that it was all my fault (when he was the one pursuing me AND didn’t tell me he had a girlfriend!), and she didn’t believe that I was innocent. It was a horrible, messy situation that I still to do this day feel guilty about.  That’s the last time I hook up with a stranger without getting a more thorough background check!

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  • Kate

    I actually had the exact same thing happen to me