Comments Of The Week: Feeling Left Out

We all know what it’s like to feel left out. Whether it’s the sinking feeling in your gut or the longing sensation in your heart, it’s a crappy feeling. It hurts even more when those feelings of exclusion are the result of failing friendships or not fitting in with the rest of the crowd.

Seriously, if you feel like this on a regular basis trust us: You’re not alone. Still don’t believe us? Check out these 10 comments that you’ll definitely relate to.


From I Don’t Have A Best Friend And It’s Starting To Bum Me Out

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From I Don’t Have A Best Friend And It’s Starting To Bum Me Out

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From I Don’t Have A Best Friend And It’s Starting To Bum Me Out

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From I Don’t Have A Best Friend And It’s Starting To Bum Me Out

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From I’m 22 And I’ve Never Been Kissed…And It’s Not A Big Deal

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From Why Is It So Hard To Find Plus Size Clothes At Your Favorite Store?

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From Being Single When Your Friends Aren’t

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From I Don’t Really Like Drinking Alcohol And It Makes Me Feel Like An Outcast

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From What It’s Like When You’re Feeling Left Out

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Suggest a group activity that put all of you on an equal playing field. Maybe a game of laser tag because who doesn't love laser tag? If an outing doesn't work, you might have to include a few more people into your fold so that you don't feel like a third wheel all the time. Also, you should be honest with one of your friends about how you've been feeling. You don't have to make a big production out of it. Just say, "Hey, I'm happy for y'all but we should totally hang together more. Without PDA..." If they can't bother to do that for the sake of your friendship, give them some space until they're past the inseparable phase of their relationship.

From My Best Friends Are Dating And Now I Feel Like A Third Wheel

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Have you been feeling left out lately? What’s going on? How do you deal with it? Tell us in the comments!

 

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