10 Signs You Can Trust Your Boyfriend

Trust is one of the most important parts of a relationship – without it, it’s really difficult for things to actually work. But that doesn’t mean that it’s easy to develop complete trust in a person. In fact, it’s the opposite of easy… it’s really freakin’ hard, especially if you’ve been hurt and/or betrayed in the past.

Putting your trust someone is essentially you making yourself more vulnerable, and a lot of people have trouble with that. I’m one of those people. I’ve been burned pretty badly in the past, by both close friends and romantic partners, and it has caused me to be extremely cautious about who I trust now. I know that a lot of you are in the same boat. But when you meet someone who you really like, you want to trust them… it’s just that there’s always this nagging voice in the back of your head asking if this is really a good idea. 

For those of you who are stuck in this situation, here are 10 surefire signs you actually can trust him. Now take a deep breath, and learn to let go of the past!

Are you dating someone right now? Do you trust him or her? How do you know when you can trust someone? Tell me in the comments.

 

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  • Merit

    I have a boyfriend, who is always with his ex but i trust him tho. Now there is this new girl his always with and it really make me not to trust him again. Am just confuse cause he keep telling me there is nothing going on between them.

  • keke

    I recently found out that he has been texting his ex. Should I trust him? Because I found out before and he said he would stop. But then he started texting her again. I don’t know what to do.

  • anne

    Im now at the situation where Im giving his last chance.. he said he will do everything to make it up to me again. starting a new page, he told me to forget the past. he lied to me before when he was talking to other girls behind my back. that’s the reason I don’t trust him anymore. I stayed with him but I don’t trust him like before. So now, he wanted me to trust him again, he said all the things I did which he didn’t like before and etc. so now, I don’t want to be unfair so I want to trust to him again, but the thoughts of him lying to me before are flashing back. Last night, I asked him if he was angry when im checking on his phone.. he said NO PROBLEM.. but if you really trust to me, you will NEVER check my phone. So now im reading articles online regarding checking of the phone. he always check my phone anyway. but when it comes to him, he is saying that, now he said. I should trust him and his words.. but trust me.. its so hard because I don’t know what to do. does checking his phone does mean I don’t trust him?

  • Lennie

    I am in a relationship for a year now. The guy I’m with had pursued me and said that I’m the only one he lives. However, I recently found out that his ex has been recently texting, calling, video chatting, and she’s all over his social media. He said they’re friends, and that there’s nothing more to it. However, I told him him I felt that’s that’s more than being in a friend zone, and I am very much uncomfortable with the fact she’s commenting with all his post on social media and saying inappropriate words if they are friends. We got into a fight over this, but he seemed that he’s making excuses for her actions instead of trying to understand my point. She was an ex for a reason right? But why is she coming back and why is he entertaining her more than me? I’ve been told by my friends to leave him be and just move on, but I love this guy so much and it wasn’t easy. I did trust him, but now, he’s acting somewhat shady and I don’t know if I should.