One thing you’re probably thinking about is sex noises. Is moaning a turn-on or a turn-off? That’s what you’re talking about on the message boards so let’s see what y’all had to say:
“Do guys like moaning or is it a turn off?”
“My guy loves it when I moan especially if I moan his name. It’s a huge turn on for him.”
“So far most guys like moaning, it shows that they are ‘hitting it’ right… just don’t overdo it”
“This is pretty much how it goes in a guy’s mind, Moaning = ‘I do good! Hell yea!’ No moaning = ‘Hmm, I wonder why she doesn’t seem interested…’ or if he is moaning and you’re not = ‘awkwarrdddd’ Over the top moaning (like you know when you’re even faking it) =’I know your faking it, I’m barely moving!’”
“In all seriousness, moaning is a good sign to guys. If you’re asking about it because you’re shy, don’t force it just let it happen naturally because it’s annoying when it doesn’t sound genuine. And if for right now you’re too shy to even make a sound, tell him what’s up, he’ll appreciate it because whether they admit it or not, pretty much ALL guys are insecure about how they are in the bedroom.”
Much like everything else sex related, it all comes down to personal preference. That said, in my experiences, I’ve never encountered someone who didn’t like moaning as a reaction to what was happening. It’s basically positive reinforcement for your partner that they’re doing something that feels good for you, which is a huge turn-on for them.
Silent sex can be really awkward, but so can really super loud sex. The best thing to do is what comes naturally for you. Don’t start screaming wildly because you think that’s what your partner is into. Your body will react naturally to something that feels good so it’s best to go with that.
And don’t be afraid if you feel like whatever noises you’re making are weird because they’re not! I promise whoever you’re with is not judging you by what noises you make. They’re more focused on you!
What do you think about moaning? Is it a turn-on or turn-off? Tell us in the comments!
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