8 Tips On What To Do When His Ex-Girlfriend Won’t Leave Him Alone

We’ve all had those relationships that involve dealing with a seemingly “crazy” ex-girlfriend who don’t leave your new boo alone. She either, a) thinks there’s a chance that they’ll get back together, or, b) just wants to sabotage your relationship because she’s jealous. Whatever the reason is, trying to maintain a happy, new relationship while the past keeps coming back to haunt your BF is NOT fun. 

But here’s the thing: we need to remember that that “crazy” ex-girlfriend is just a person who is dealing with a lot of emotional issues… she’s just dealing with them in the wrong way. To make an awkward situation a little better, you need to be the one who acts rational, otherwise you’re going to have all sorts of drama. If you want her to leave you two alone for good, here are 8 tips on what to do when his ex-girlfriend won’t go away: 

Have you ever had to deal with a boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend? What would you do in that situation? Tell me in the comments!


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  • Abee

    I met this wonderful man, from the beginning he had told me that he had 2 boys.. I have a huge LOVE for kids, he had also told me that he an his ex had broken up, he said he was very unhappy with her… I was good with our relationship, with in 2 1/2 years being together he proposed an of course I said “Yes”! We moved in together an we been living together for 7months.. Our relationship was fine.. Until 4 days ago she came to our apartment an started treating him about his kids, although I have never met her in person, but my fiance would show me her messages, an she would say ” mylove” or she loves him, he ddidn’t say it back, anywho alot of drama went down that night.. After she left we had a long conversation, I had told him I don’t want to be in the middle of there situation, so I decided that I would go stay with family for a few days until he get everything situated for the sake of his boys… I’m very hurt an heart broken!! An very stressed out an so is he.. Do u think she’s jealous of our relationship or is she trying to get him back? I’m worried.. What do I do?? Everything she says is I need this for the boys.. But she also has other kids for another guy!?

  • Amanda B

    I think it would have been best to block her on his phone and social media.

  • Amanda B

    So I read the comments and not sure I understand responding with retaliation and anger. A boyfriend, fiance, husband – whatever, isn’t responsible for the actions of his ex. There is only so much he can do and he can’t control another human being.

    • Kellygirl

      You think posting a video message to her on YouTube should suffice!?

  • Tired wife

    Married a wonderful man and new his baby mama is a psycho…he forewarned me; his family forewarned me; her family forewarned me. They never got married and he has physical custody of 7 year old girl. She hasn’t paid child support in the 7 years, does not help with medical bills per the court order. Had the audacity to ask why he didn’t marry her instead. By the way she has
    Been in prison for drugs, forgery and theft. She has come
    Between the bond me and my stepdaughter and calls my husband when she cannot handle her girl. I have talked with husband and while he seems to support me he doesn’t like facing the issues cuz the mom “can’t handle too much responsibility “. She has yet to get insurance on our girl (Medicaid) so I now have added her to my insurance (husband retired). The constant calls are rediculous not
    To mention our girls diva attitude since she has gotten whatever whenever with her dad but I have put budget in place and asked him to help kick the attitude. Have no rights as a step parent but if I financially responsible along with my husband I want some rights and I want baby mama to step up. Now to the point I loathe the woman! AND I can’t say anything derogatory because it causes a fight. Won’t be surprised if she comes over and entices him while I work…trust issues now exist.

  • Elizabeth

    He and I have done all of these and they aren’t working all that well – if at all.