From The Message Boards: Does Size Really Matter?

There’s an old saying, “It’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion of the ocean.” It has nothing to do with boats or oceans. It’s about penises.

There are some people who really care about penis size, but everyone always wants to know if size really matters after all. That’s what y’all are talking about this week on the message boards.

Let’s see what you had to say:

Draconem97 asked:
“Everybody always says that size doesn’t matter and it all depends on what the boy does with it, rather than how big is it. But is that true? Or does size affect how good it feels?”

candygirl91 asked:
“Size does matter to me, but it doesn’t need to be too big. I’ve been with a guy who was literally 3 inches and the sex wasn’t that great. Currently boyfriend is about 4-4.5 and it hits the spot just right without hurting.”

eeevol asked:
“It matters to some people but for me it does matter in a way. But some people love their man and don’t care about there D size.”

lisa775 asked:
“For me there IS such a thing as to small or to big, 5-8″ works for me and 8 is pushing it.”

Luxie asked:
“The guy I lost my virginity to was about 7″ and the sex was good. At the time I thought it was the great but boy was I wrong. My husband is average and he has given me mind blowing orgasms. I was never able to orgasm through just penetration until him. I always had to use my hand, but now I rarely do that. So for me size doesn’t matter. A guy can be huge and not pleasure me as much as a guy who is smaller. It’s not the size of the ship it’s the motion of the ocean!”

Honestly, everyone is different. Size may matter to you and not to a friend. You might experience sex with someone who has a large penis, and it’s not that great. You might experience sex with someone who has a small penis, and it’s awesome. Or vice versa.

What works for you sexually might not work for someone else, and that’s okay. I honestly believe in the motion of the ocean theory based on my personal experiences. The important thing to remember is that you figure out what works for you. If you’re with someone who just isn’t getting things right, then tell them what you want. Sex requires communication. Good sex requires a lot of honest communication.

Like I said last week, sex takes time to figure out from person to person. You might have had amazing sex with your last partner and might take a minute to get adjusted to someone new. You have to take the time and put in the effort to learn your partner’s body and figure out what works for the both of you.

 
What do you think? Does size matter? Tell us in the comments!
 

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5 Comments

  1. avatar sweetheart says:

    I thnk size matters…. my bf has a medium sized penis… and his motions were brilliat… bt nw my vagina has been losed… as we did sex daily… so nw i m nt satisfied.. nw i want that penis to be much more inside my pussy. I belive oceans motion matters as said… bt size does also matter.

  2. avatar Chuck says:

    Vagina size matter too…why is it always one of two aspect being discussed?

  3. avatar Ububub says:

    I guess I,m average but not sure. If my cock can’t do it then my tongue can.

  4. avatar ocean says:

    is it me or has everyone on here listened to the song size of you boat by jeffree star?

  5. avatar pinkheart says:

    Size shouldnt matter unless he is just really small and its either hard to keep in or its hard to stimulate him because he isnt very big. My friends and I talk about this subject a lot, maybe because we just like talking about guys and their penises. There are a lot of size comparison sites online, I guess something to look at for fun or when you are bored or at sleep overs.

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