10 Thoughts You’ll Have If You’ve Been Cheated On

Being cheated on totally sucks. There’s really no other way to explain it. It’s an awful, awful thing. I’ve been cheated on, and it was easily one of the worst things I’ve ever gone through. I definitely don’t want to go through it again.

A lot goes through your mind if you’ve been cheated on. You’re trying to process why and how you didn’t know it was happening. You’re trying to figure out if you did something to drive the other person away. You’ll be sad and mad and basically in a glass case of emotion.

OMG this is not happening to me.

Well did it mean anything?

How long has this been going on?

Is this the first time this has happened?

Is it my fault?

I literally cannot handle this right now.

Was it someone I knew?

Will I ever trust this person again?

Can I forgive them?

Do I want to forgive them?

Have you ever been cheated on? What thoughts went through your head? Did you stay with that person? Tell us in the comments!

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  • Dan Shoop

    The last one is my favorite. I’ve used it before.

  • Tiaa McGee

    My Last Boyfriend Had Another Girlfriend And I Didn’t Even Know Plus He Cheated With Another Girl , It Hurt Me So Bad To find out because he seemed like The Perfect One For Me But I Thank Him Now For Teaching me A Lesson And Now I Have A Better Boyfriend Now That I Love And Who Treats Me Better But I Ain’t Gone Lie Sometimes I still Think About It ??

  • Stephanie

    My current boyfriend last relationship,which was also his first.he found. Out his girlfriend was cheating on him,they dates for 3 months and never kissed.

  • Aria

    and there is one more thing… probably the worst. you feel that you weren’t good enough.

  • Lauren

    I’ve been cheated on in all TWO of my relationships and I never took them back. I firmly believe in the claim “once a cheater, always a cheater.” Even if it “meant nothing to him,” it means, in that moment, he was void of you and you should be with someone who can’t STOP thinking of you. I also don’t believe that on-again-off-again results in a happy ending, at least not nowadays.

    Not for a second have I ever wondered about these guys nor do I have any feelings for them whatsoever – hell we’re not even so much as Facebook friends! It’s possible to get over them, trust me.

    As the wise sage Notorious B.I.G. once said, “I don’t chase ’em, I replace ’em.” #GurlCode