8 Tips On What To Do If He Doesn’t Call or Text You Back

When it comes to dating, one of the most frustrating things ever has to be when you’re talking to a dude – and out of nowhere, he stops answering your texts. Or, he says he’ll call and he doesn’t. Basically, whenever he doesn’t call or text you back can drive you CRAZY. Ugh.

In these situations, it can be tough to figure out what to do. The hopeful part of your brain wants to believe something happened, like his phone died or he’s really, really busy with other stuff or maybe your phone is broken and the text just didn’t go through. Then there’s that miserable part of your brain that is imagining the absolute worst. So how do you deal? What do you do? Well, for starters, read these tips. They’ll help, I promise.

Have you ever been in this situation? How did you react? What do you do when a guy doesn’t answer you? Tell us in the comments.

 

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  • DEAR ELLIE

    Dear girls,

    If a guy doesn’t respond to you, if he makes you ache, a mistake can be trying. Don’t try to fix it, don’t try to make sense of it, you have to treat and feel about him casually. When you start putting your feelings into it, you will only get hurt, put your guard up, don’t be easily moved. Don’t get expectations of him.

    If you have made the mistake of getting into him, or let curiosity go into interest before he’s drop dead into you, before you contact him, have a one night stand and get him out of your system. Or give yourself time away from him and forget him. Then talk to him, because if he’s starting to treat you casually, either you need to be at the stage to treat him casually back or forget him.

    xx

  • AIDAH MATAMA

    I have guy we spent almost 8 months with him bt we had sex for several times with him , bt what really happened we had sex on friday last week bt those days he longer calls when i send a text he doesnt text back ineed help from people please help what should i do please before i do anything wrong advise please

  • Rosalintha

    This is happening to me right now I met a guy he took me his house then he wanted sex then I refused so he took me out to eat now he suddenly stopped responding to my messages

  • Ella

    I totally relate to this article and I think it will help me. Back in August, I was hanging with one of my guy friends at his college an hour away from mine. Me and one of his friends seem to hit it off and talked ever since. I made a rash decision and slept with him though, but we hung out almost ever free weekend he had. (He usually asks me to come up to his college.) We hung out this weekend and it was fun. He said he missed hanging out with me. Buttt, now a few days after, he hasn’t really been texting me. Twice, he went to bed saying “I’ll text you in the morning, sweet dreams.” but he won’t text me in the morning? Is that some way of blowing me off and not wanting me to text him first.. or at all? I fell for him and at first I didn’t want to because I always end up hurt but I thought he would be different so I fell and now I’m unsure whether he will catch me. Advice would be good.