We get a ton of questions from you guys every day, but one of the questions we get the most has to be this one: how do you learn how to masturbate? I get it – if you’ve never done it before, masturbation can seem intimidating. There’s a lot going on down there! What are you supposed to use? Where exactly do you put your fingers? How do you know when you’re dong it right?
Once you start masturbating, you’ll see that the answers to those questions are pretty obvious. But before you get to that point, learning what to do for self-pleasure can be confusing and complicated. That’s why we’ve got your back! If you’re wondering what to do down there, here are 7 ways to learn how to masturbate. Use your resources to your advantage!
Take A ClassNo, this is not a joke. Elon University in North Carolina is offering a course that will teach students how to masturbate. It's not what you think, either: this isn't going to be a weird class where everyone gets naked and practices with each other. That would not be okay. It's going to be more informative, discussing male and female sexuality, sex toys and communication. I think this is pretty awesome. Maybe more colleges will start offering courses like this in the future! Source: ShutterStock
Do A Little Research Of Your OwnIf you really have no idea what you're doing, don't worry - the Internet holds all of the information you need. Do a quick Google search for "how to masturbate" and tons of sites will pop up, including Gurl.com! You can also read magazines like Cosmopolitan, which always offer tips. If you're worried someone will catch you, just clear your history when you're done. Source: ShutterStock
Watch PornOne way to learn how to masturbate is to watch someone else do it - in other words, watch porn. If you're comfortable watching pornography, you can very easily find videos that will show you what to do. This is how a lot of people learn! Source: ShutterStock
Download An AppA few months ago, we wrote about the app HappyPlayTime, something that is striving to take away the stigma female masturbation has. It's supposed to teach you tips and tricks through little games and we're still anxiously awaiting it's arrival. Once it's available, which should be soon, download it ASAP! HappyPlayTime Website
Experiment With YourselfPractice makes perfect when it comes to masturbation. After you read about some tips, you need to just try it out and experiment on yourself. Move around, try different things and you'll eventually figure out what feels good for you. Source: ShutterStock
Ask A FriendIf you're comfortable talking about masturbation and you have a close and trusted friend who is just as open as you are, ask her for any tips she might have. I have a few friends who are more than happy to talk about what they do and it's really not that weird. Source: ShutterStock
Don't Overthink ItThe main thing to remember when you're trying to learn how to masturbate? Don't overthink it. Stressing out over it, thinking about it too much or pressuring yourself isn't going to make anything any better. It's going to make it more difficult because you're tense. Relax, enjoy yourself and do what feels best! Source: ShutterStock
Do you need help learning how to masturbate? How did you learn? Tell us in the comments.