But how much flirting is too much? That’s what you’re discussing this week on the message boards. Does flirting a lot make you a ho?
Let’s see what y’all had to say:
“I flirt with guys….A LOT! Am I considered a ho?”
“Not really. I think it just means your flirty. Which is not considered a ‘ho.’”
“A flirt is not considered a ho. If you worry too much about what people think, you will never have fun. Haters will hate. Just flirt as much as you want, have fun & be yourself. If you feel like you’re a ‘ho’ then change it. Only do it for yourself though.”
“I flirt a lot too, it’s just my personality. If people don’t like that, it’s their problem.”
“In NO way is flirting making you a hoe. You are only a ho if you basically sleep with him/lead him on, then it’s a tease. But, every girl/guy flirts, it’s a natural thing. So flirt away, you’re not hurting anyone!”
Flirting is totally normal, and no, flirting a lot does not make you a ho. There is nothing wrong with flirting, even if you’re just flirting to flirt. You’re not being a tease or doing anything you shouldn’t be.
One thing you should avoid, however, is flirting with guys who have girlfriends. You wouldn’t want someone flirting with your boyfriend, so don’t do that to someone else. Flirt all you want with the single guys, but leave the ones who are off the market alone. That’s just a good human being thing to do.
But seriously, flirting is pretty harmless. Don’t worry about “flirting too much” and just have fun!
Do you flirt a lot? Do you think that makes you a ho? Tell us in the comments!
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