10 Tips On How To Make Your Friend With Benefits Your Boyfriend

I’ve never kept it a secret that I think friends with benefits type relationships are a horrible idea. When they start off, they sound great – you have someone to hang out and hook up with when you feel like getting frisky, but you don’t have the obligations of a relationship to deal with. Who wouldn’t want something as light and easy as that?

The problem with friends with benefits is that everyone thinks they can handle it, but the majority of people cannot. Once you start having an intimate relationship with someone you like (and obviously you like them if you’re hooking up with them, I don’t care what you say), it’s natural to eventually start to want something more serious. It happens all the time. Since most girls go into a FWB swearing up and down that they won’t get attached, they freak out when they do get attached and sometimes end up doing the wrong thing.

Truthfully, it’s really, really difficult to make your friends with benefits your boyfriend. In most cases, I think it’s impossible. Once a guy sees that he can get what he wants without having to really do anything back for you, it’s hard for him to change the way he sees the relationship he has with you. However, there are some people out there that swear that it can happen. If you’ve recently fallen head over heels for your friend with benefits, here are 10 tips that might make him your boyfriend. Good luck!

Have you ever had a friend with benefits? Did you fall for him? Have you ever made a FWB into your boyfriend? How did you do it? Tell us in the comments.


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  • leanne

    I have a fwb right now I have known him all my life and want to be togather and I’m geting sense he wants the same but ee both scared to say something to each other and he also lives out of state si its hard wen he has to leave to go home any one have any advice please let me know

  • Elizabeth

    I have a fresh friends with benefits relationship with a guy that I want something more with. I’m kinda settling for this relationship because it’s the only kind I can have with him.

    • Kayla

      I fully and understand what you’re saying. I’m going through the exact situation. A part of me wants to tell him & get it over with because it’s not gonna end the way I want it to. :(

  • Amee

    My husband thought it would be sexy if I slept with his buddy, so he kept bringing him over until I finally agreed and we became friends with benefits. My husband and I have been having problems a long time and now I kinda want to leave him and date my friend with benefits but I don’t know if he would want to be that serious :/ he takes me out for dinner and we even went to a theme park together but I’m not sure if he’s just being nice or is falling in love with me too :(

    • rosesline perez

      first i’ll talk to the guy and say like what if this happend… and see what he gots to say. but u can see that u and ur husband need to split because these problomes will go on and on. but if ur heart is saying go for it just go for it.