7 Things You Shouldn’t Over-Share With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend

When you’re in a relationship with someone, especially if it’s new, you typically have the knee-jerk reaction to share everything with them. You want to tell them every single detail about your day and your life because we share those details to millions of strangers online so it just makes sense. But I think everyone needs to chill out. Seriously.

There are some things that you do not need to share with anyone, your partner included. I think it’s wonderful to be so comfortable with someone that you want to tell them all the things, but I can guarantee that they don’t want to know some of them.

Don’t be an over-sharer. Try to avoid sharing these 7 things with your boo.

Do you share these things with your partner? What are some things you would add to this list? Tell us in the comments!

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  • Andilicious

    Dont even try to tell ur boyfriend dat u ddnt menstruate lol dat weird

  • Amy

    Honestly the only one I agree with is not telling them other friends’ secrets. Other than that, I tell my BF basically everything about myself–frankly, who cares? If they’re grossed out by something you tell them, who cares? It’s YOU. Of course if you’re not comfortable talking about those things, that’s fine, but seriously, why shouldn’t I feel comfortable telling him about my period problems? :\ He doesn’t care, and neither do I.

    • sarah

      ya srsly…

  • Sam Escobar

    I think I’m just weird because I always have overshare-heavy relationships and we always talk about our insecurities, our past relationships to give insight into ourselves, our gross habits and other silly stuff. But oh god, @ the secrets one, yes. Whenever people tell their partner something that they were not supposed to tell anybody as though it’s some sort of exception, it’s awful and makes them so much less trustworthy.

    • Liz

      Agreed. I love the excuse “Well, we tell each other everything!” Fine if you’re telling each other everything about YOUR life…But I don’t think sharing the secrets your friends tell you really falls into that category. If you disagree, then watch how quickly I tell you NOTHING!