10 Things You Need To Know Before You Lose Your Virginity

Every day here at Gurl, we get questions from you guys asking about losing your virginity. They’re about all sorts of things, like what it’s going to feel like, how to do it and how to know when you’re actually ready to do it. I get it – losing your virginity can seem pretty terrifying. Going into the experience with no idea what to expect is even scarier.

Obviously, everyone’s first time is going to be different, but there are still some things everyone should know before they lose their virginity. These tips will help you get through the experience without being SO nervous because you’ll have a better idea of what’s going to happen. And that’s always a little comforting, right? Here are 10 things you NEED to know before you lose your virginity… and remember the most important one: have fun!

Virgins, check out this video too! We think it’s the funniest way to get this info!

What do you wish you knew before you lost your virginity? What are you the most nervous about? Tell us in the comments.


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  • kittty

    I’m in a relationship with my first boyfriend and we are both open to the idea of being intimate, but i’m a virgin and I don’t know if its a good idea to have my first time with my first boyfriend. any advice

  • Ali Rose

    I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months. I really want to lose my virginity to him, and I have tried several times, but I’ve always been so nervous. We both feel comfortable around each other, and we both want to lose our virginity to each other. Whenever, I have tried, its been painful, and he’s said that its okay to stop. But its happened that much that we’ve not gone anywhere! Can you suggest anything to help me achieve my goal of getting the D?

    • TM

      You both need more foreplay, and take it one step at a time, if today you went so far it’s OK to stop to try another day, it’s not that you failed, it’s how it how it works. You try and fail, try and fail, until you try and ….

      You’re both inexperienced, so it’ll be a bit more challenging for the both of you — he needs to lead in three areas, building up your trust so you will allow him, he needs patience so he won’t scare you, and he needs to learn how to do foreplay to put you into the right mood. There are ways you can help him with those three things, don’t think about the negatives, think about the positives, be open minded, allow yourself to be teased by him, either by the clothes he wares or the way he touches you.

      By the way, for the moment, don’t ware miniskirts or outrageously sexy outfits because he will go wild and he will want to hurry things up and you don’t want that!

      Your post is from 16 days ago, hopefully you’ve got past all those challenges and you are now enjoying one of the best gifts of life!

      Just be responsible.

  • Savanna Gulledge

    OK, my bf is visiting in two weeks and we r going to have sex. I’m wondering, since I already masturbate with a comb, if it will hurt for me. My thinking is, I’ve already had something up there, and it’s not like my himeal (sorry, I can’t really spell well) knows the difference, so well it actually hurt??

  • I can’t help me

    My bf and I are 15 and he want to break my virgianality but I said yea so tomorrow we will do I change my mind or not

  • Hunter

    Hi! I have a question.(:
    My boyfriend’s penis is darker at the base of the shaft and gets lighter towards the head. He said he developed that in the last three years. Could it be from too much masturbation, or some kind of pigment thing? He’s 380 pounds. Could that have something to do with it? It doesn’t hurt him or anything. I just want to know why it’s like that. I’m curious. Haha!

  • Anon

    Im in love with my boyfriend we’ve been together for a year and two months and we’re talking about him taking away my virginity he said that he doesnt want to and if he does he’ll just break it nothing more. But he wants to and I want to and its hard to decide what to do