One of my friends recently hooked up with a guy, later to find out that he had a girlfriend! Ugh! She was really upset about it because DUH. She would never hook up with someone if she knew they were dating someone. It’s just another perfect example of how the other woman can have no idea that she actually is the other woman.
This happens far too often. It’s even happened to me before. Honestly, it’s one of the worst feelings in the world. It really sucks too because the other woman often gets the most of the blame, even if she didn’t know.
How can you tell if the guy you’re seeing is actually cheating on his girlfriend with you? I’ve got 8 tell-tale signs for you!
He Refuses To Connect On Social Media
This is an especially concerning sign since our entire lives are on social media and are all about connecting with our friends. If he won't be your friend on Facebook or he's told you specifically not to like his Instagram pics, he's hiding something. Or someone who is probably his girlfriend. Or if all of his accounts or private and he won't allow you access, he's probably posting pictures of the two of them as a couple.
He Won't Take You To Events
He won't take you to Homecoming or any public school events. He won't even invite you to a football game. He's reserving those occasions for his GF.
Your Dates Are Always Very Secretive And Spontaneous
He won't make plans with you ahead of time and is always calling you on a whim. You always go somewhere off the beaten path so you're not seen in public together.
You Only See Him In Off-Hours
Do you only see this guy late at night? Is he only texting you after midnight? Chances are he's coming to you after he's spent the evening with his girlfriend and isn't able to get away until late.
He Won't Take Pictures With You
You have absolutely zero pictures together. If you managed to snag one, he won't let you put it online. Some guys are shy about taking pictures and PDA, but he is seriously adamant about not having evidence that he was with you.
He Leaves Pretty Quickly After A Hookup
If you meet for a rendezvous, he's outta there pretty soon after. He won't stick around for more than a few hours and always seems to be in a rush to go somewhere else.
You've Never Met His Friends Or Family
If you've been talking to or seeing someone, you meet their friends within a few weeks. If he won't introduce you to his friends, or eventually his family, it's because he's hiding you from them.
He Won't Take Calls Or Answer Texts In Front Of You
When you're together, he won't take calls or answer texts. If he does, he leaves the room. If he's not hiding you or hiding anything from you, he won't care that you're overhearing a conversation.
Have you ever accidentally been the other woman? How did you find out? Tell us in the comments!