10 Signs Your Friend Has A Crush On Your Boyfriend

When I was in high school, I found myself in one of the most awkward, uncomfortable situations ever: a new friend who I had grown really close to had started crushing on my boyfriend, who I had been dating for three years. I met my friend, because she was dating one of my boyfriend’s friends. When they broke up, she started spending a lot of time with my BF and I, growing closer to both of us.

It didn’t take long for me to figure out that she was crushing hard on my boyfriend – and I wasn’t the only one who noticed. At first, I tried to stay friends with her since I genuinely cared about her as my BFF. But after a while, I couldn’t deal with it anymore. Her crush drove us apart and we stopped speaking entirely. Two years later, the same exact thing happened with another, different best friend. This time, the situation was so bad that I broke up with my boyfriend and got in a huge, dramatic fight with said friend.

So, it’s safe to say that I know how to tell if your friend has a crush on your boyfriend. There are some telltale signs that you might want to ignore, because you don’t want to lose either of them, but you shouldn’t. Things can get very tricky very fast… trust me.

Do you think one of your friends has a crush on your boyfriend? Has this ever happened to you? What happened? Tell me in the comments.


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  • Anastacia

    I’m not sure if my friend like my boyfriend because she’s not like that but lately I’ve been noticing things and I’m not the only one my other friends also noticed it. The 3 of us attend the same school my friend and boyfriend is in the same grade, and I’m one grade lower than them. So that means that at times he goes to her house and they’ll be doing their tasks and its not that I don’t trust him, I do honestly….. But it just the things that she’s been saying to me, she would ask me what would I do if I catch them making out… And she’ll be asking him for hugs and such. He evem kisses her on her cheek!!! I don’t wanna tell him how I feel about this beacause then I’ll seem insecure… I’ve told him before to just see the way she acts around him but he says that she’s normal around him….I really don’t know what to do

  • Isabella B

    My friend is always trying to be around my boyfriend is always looking out for him and just before we started dating she was talking bad about him and she had a boyfriend. But ever since she broke up with her boyfriend she’s been acting different like making sure he’s okay, alway looking at him, talks to him when I’m not around, does stuff to make him notice her. But when me and my boyfriend hold hands or hug in front of her you can tell that she is mad.