When you’ve been in a relationship for a decent amount of time, it’s normal for couples to start annoying each other a little bit. Everyone knows that there are certain things most guys do that annoy most girls and certain things most girls do that annoy most guys. Sometimes, you might not realize you’re bugging your BF… or maybe you do realize and you just don’t care.
Either way, if you’re dating someone, you’re probably doing some of this stuff that is driving him a little bit crazy. I am totally guilty of doing
most some of this stuff. And as much as you might not want to admit it, you probably are too. Here are 10 things you (might) do that annoy your boyfriend.
Text Him Constantly When He's With His FriendsYour BF is allowed to hang out with his friends without keeping you updated the entire time. When he has his guy nights, give him a little space! If you text him the entire time to ask what he's up to or who he's with, that comes off as controlling, needy and insecure - three things humans in general don't like. Let your boyfriend have his uninterrupted boy's nights and I guarantee he'll sincerely appreciate it. Source: ShutterStock
Ask Him If He Still Loves You... All The TimeI know it's nice to hear the words, "I love you" come out of your boyfriend's mouth, but that doesn't mean you should ask him if he still loves you all the time. Again, that comes off as needy and insecure and neither of those traits are particularly sexy. It's also a little bit insulting. If you said "I love you" to him and he kept asking if you were sure, wouldn't you be like, "Uh, what makes you think I'm not?" It's aggravating to hear this a lot. Source: ShutterStock
Talk About Your Friends The Entire Time You're With HimYour boyfriend might not mind hearing about the latest juicy gossip, but I seriously doubt it's what he wants to talk about every single time you guys are together. He's hanging out with you to be with you, not to talk about other people the entire time. Plus, hearing the same thing over and over is annoying to anyone. Try to keep the gossip to a minimum. Source: ShutterStock
Take His Bad Moods PersonallyDon't automatically assume that every single bad mood your BF gets in is because of you. And don't take it personally if you can't cheer him up - that will likely only make him even more annoyed. Also, try not to get mad at him if he doesn't want to talk about whatever is bothering him right away. Sometimes people, especially guys, like to deal with things on their own. I know it's frustrating, but try to give him the space he needs, otherwise you're probably going to end up driving him crazy. Source: ShutterStock
Call Yourself Fat And/Or UglyI've said this millions of times, but I'll say it again: don't call yourself fat or ugly in front of your BF (or ever). Guys HATE this. It makes them feel uncomfortable and it can also make them feel like their opinions don't matter - they are obviously dating you because they think you're amazing and you saying you're not bums them out. Insulting yourself will definitely make your boyfriend annoyed because he doesn't know how to respond to that. Source: ShutterStock
Say You're Fine When You're Obviously Not FineWe've all done this: you're in a bad mood, but you don't want to tell your BF, you want him to figure it out himself. Or, you're mad at him but for some reason, instead of just being honest about it, you say "I'm fine" when he asks what's wrong. This is enough to drive anyone crazy because you're obviously not fine! Saying this is an easy way to make him mad and to make a fight last a lot longer than it should. Just be honest!
Regularly Ask Him If He's Going To Cheat/Is CheatingConstantly asking your boyfriend if he's being faithful is not annoying, it's also a huge sign that you're insecure, which is a big turnoff. Asking this can also be insulting to your boyfriend - if he's being faithful to you, don't react by doubting him! You should trust your boyfriend and if you don't, you shouldn't be dating him. If you feel the need to always ask if he's cheating, there's either something wrong on your end or on his end and either way, it's not good. Source: ShutterStock
Get Super Jealous Over Any Girl He Makes Small Talk WithJealousy is a part of any relationship, but it starts to become a big problem once you take it too far. Of course, your BF shouldn't be flirting with other girls, but that doesn't mean he has to act like other females don't exist. Your boyfriend is allowed to chat with and even be friends with other girls - as long as it's strictly platonic, you should keep your jealousy in check. Fighting with him over every single chick he says hi to is absolutely going to make him angry and eventually may even drive him away. Source: ShutterStock
Reject All Of His ComplimentsWhen your boyfriend compliments you, all you have to do is smile and say, "thank you." That's it. Don't tell him he's wrong or be like "really?!" or make a face or anything like that. He's saying something nice to you and you rejecting that is basically you telling him you don't really care what he thinks. The majority of us need to learn how to take compliments a little better. Source: ShutterStock
Stalk His ExesYou might be able to talk about your Facebook stalking skills with your bestie, but you probably shouldn't do that with your boyfriend. Guys Facebook stalk too, but most guys out there don't feel too comfortable when they hear their girlfriend is stalking their ex on a regular basis. If you're going to do it once in a while, okay, but keep it to yourself. Source: ShutterStock
Do you ever do any of these things? Have you ever done them? Do you disagree with any of these? Tell me in the comments.