7 Reasons Watching Porn Isn’t A Bad Thing

It’s obvious that watching porn is a pretty controversial topic here on Gurl. It seems like you guys either love porn (you watch it, you don’t mind if your BF watches it), or you’re totally against it (you think it’s demeaning, you think watching it could be considered cheating). But truthfully, guys, porn shouldn’t be your enemy. I can totally understand feeling uncomfortable with the idea of pornography (I used to, too!), but in reality, there are a lot of good things about watching porn.

We’ve discussed “porn for women” before, but I’ve always thought it was a stupid concept. Why does there have to be porn made specifically for women? Can’t women enjoy porn just as much as men do without the stereotypes? Porn star and actor James Deen agrees. He recently discussed his thoughts on porn for women with Refinery 29 and I thought what he said was pretty great: “My theory on porn for women is it’s just porn. Why is there porn explicitly only for women? By saying there needs to be porn for women, you’re basically isolating women as a gender and saying, ‘This is how women should think. This is how their sexuality should be.’ It’s counterproductive (from what I understand) to the equality movement. Who says that one woman’s take on sexuality is the right way to think?”

That being said, here are 7 reasons watching porn isn’t a bad thing. If you do it, don’t be ashamed! If you want to try and you’re hesitant… let these reasons be your motivation.

Do you watch porn? Do you think watching porn is okay? Would you be cool with your BF watching porn? Tell me in the comments!

 

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  • Brock

    All the things that are listed above are all lies I’m sorry but to say porn befits a person is a huge facade it only causes problems it can tare marriages and family’s apart it causes trust between husband and wife to walk out the door it causes a person to willingly lie to everyone it can lead to much more extreme things just look at Ted Bundy it makes it really tough to be intimate with your spouse and it only fills you with an unsatisfiable lust and it’ll just lead to a bunch of confusion about sex. Does it promote love,respect, and peace Nope! does it lead someone to be successful Nope! does it lead anyone to freedom/happiness Nope! it just leads you into a frustrating addiction putting you into captivity to your own lustful desires I could go on and on and on but I think I’ve made my point very eloquently clear THAT! PORN! WILL! PROFIT! YOU! NOTHING!!!!. oh and this is coming from a person who struggled with an addiction to porn so I know very well the effects of porn.

  • Elizabeth

    YES THE RIGHT VIDEOS CAN HELP YOU REACH ORGASM AND THE REASON WHY I ALSO ENJOY WATCHING PORN IS IT WILL HELP YOU DISCOVER WHAT YOU LIKE WHEN IT COMES TO SEX

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  • Max West

    There are many pros to watching porn. First and most importantly, when you satisfy your sexual needs by masturbating to porn, the whole issue of unsafe sex is a moot point. Secondly, enjoying porn in the privacy of your own home enables you to avoid all the dangers you might encounter by going out late at night, sitting in a niteclub or sleazy movie theatre, or dealing with God only knows what by picking up the wrong person who could harm you in some way or steal from you. Third, you save a lot of money watching all the free pron available on the Internet and getting yourself off rather than spending money on drinks at a bar, people you meet, or gas to get there. Finally, you won’t find as many young, well hung, gorgeous guys anywhere else but on porn sites. This not only ensures a great deal of sexual eroticism, but may serve to inspire you to lose weight and get in shape so you meet guys like this and maybe even look like them someday (at least in your dreams Lol).

  • jhoyce

    i’m Pro.. :(

  • Linh Chi

    I’d be fine with my bf watching I don’t really if he watches porn or not.

  • erica

    I like porn because it helps me feel sexy and if you find the right videos it can help you achieve orgasm