And that’s what y’all are talking about this week on the message boards! One girl’s “friend” told her crush that she didn’t like him so now he’s not going to ask her out.
Let’s see what you had to say:
“You should be straight up with him and tell him that you know he heard that you didn’t like him and that it’s not true. Easy.”
“TELL THE GUY. Say that your friend was lying and you like him. That’s all you need to say.”
“That’s not your true friend then. No one should be involved in your relationships besides you and that other person. Just be straight up and tell him how you feel and let him know that your friend is delusional and doesn’t know what she’s talking about. Just be honest with him!”
That’s a crappy thing this so-called friend did. I’d be really upset if one of my friends told my crush that I didn’t like him. Rude! But this situation can be salvaged. The key is being confident and honest.
If you like someone, tell them! How are they supposed to know if you don’t? They can’t read your mind. Regardless of what anyone else has said to your crush about how you feel, they’re never going to know the truth until you tell them. If you’re in this kind of situation, talk to your crush and explain that what they heard was wrong and that you do have feelings for them.
This goes for all crushes too, whether someone is trying to mess it up for you or not! If you want something to happen with your crush, you need to tell them how you feel. Or ask them our yourself!
Has one of your friends told your crush you don’t like them? What did you do? Have you told your crush you have feelings for them? Tell us in the comments!
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