8 Things That Do Not Make You A Slut

I was perusing the message boards and came across the topic “What would you call a slut?” asked by a girl whose friends are judging her because of her sex life. It made me so upset that this girl has to ask this question and that her friends are so judgmental. My friends judged me when I lost my virginity, and it was so hurtful.

I am so tired of hearing people call girls sluts for having active sex lives. Just because you personally do not make the same decisions regarding sex does not make someone else a slut. Your sex life is your business, always. And slut is a super judgmental term. It’s outdated, and quite frankly, stupid. Having any sort of sex life is a personal choice. No one should feel badly about having an active one, just like no one should feel badly about not having an active sex life.

So in case you’re wondering about sluts, here are some things that do not make you a slut.

 
What do you think a slut is? Have you ever been called a slut? Have you ever called someone else a slut? Tell us in the comments.
 

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  • Fried Chicken

    Whether there’s an emotional attachment or not, if there is 2 dicks or more going inside of you frequently your a slut ?

  • Fried Chicken

    Look.. a slut is a girl who has sex with a lot of different guys. If you do that your a slut don’t sugarcoat shit to try to make you feel better about yourself ? Nothing wrong nobody actually gives a fuck.

  • Chloe Cheah

    well, i was basically called a desperate ho by my mum and sister for kissing my guy best friend on cheek, but really though, is it considered taboo?

  • Arminds’ copy of Swank

    Thing is, when someone calls another a slut their not always judging their sex life they’re often saying that she’s dressed too revealingly for their taste.

  • Splash

    Only sluts defend to the death of them any type of slutty behavior no matter how slutty. If you fuck a dude and are seeing him exclusively and fuck and suck a bunch of other dudes behind his back and then kiss him. You’re a slut. If you go out to a bar to get fucked because you had an argument with you’re guy and go back and talk to him like its all goo, and really lie to yourself and can act and believe that it never happened, you’re a slut. If you start asking questions like do you have kids, how many people have you been with, how many siblings you have, etc after you fucked him on the first date meaning you indiscriminately fucked this person and probably could’ve fucked his friends too, you’re probably a slut. If you’re ok with guys running trains on you you’re probably a slut.

  • zakk88

    If you have sex with an unmarried partner that makes you slut. sorry!

    • Splash

      you mean married person? unmarried person meaning single should be alright

  • Heather donald

    hi so im 13 and i want some advice. I sent nudes to this guy because i liked him and thought i could trust him. He told his best mate thats it and then his best mate told my best friend thinking she already knew. My so called best friend went and told my whole school and now everyone is calling me a whore/slut. Hes a big player though, and he liked my best friend the whole time I dont know how to clear my nmae because im not a slut i havenot even kissed a guy or lost my virginity

  • quincunx

    I think being “slutty” has more to do with your selectivity in sex partners than how frequently you have sex, or how many sex partners you have.

    Like, if you had 15 sex partners in the last year, but you got to know each of them really well, and knew that sex with each person would be safe, well, good for you!

    But let’s just say you fuck anybody you find off the street. You don’t know if this person has STDs. You don’t know if this person is a sex offender. You don’t know if this person is in a committed relationship. All you care about is that your genitals interlock.

    Well, I still won’t call you a slut. However, I will feel sorry for you. You probably have some void in your life that you think you can fill with sex. You might think that you’ll feel accepted, pretty, loved, etc. if you can get people to have sex with you. And that’s sad.

    • Arminds’ copy of Swank

      People won’t see the difference. Generalities are common and they would fail to see the difference between slut meaning sleeping around and sleeping around unsafely and to the detriment of their physical and mental health

  • msmayboo

    So what is a slut lol i actually need an answer. I been called a slut bt i hardly dp anything i have high standards … It confuses me like what am i doing for people to call me a slut