10 Reasons He’s Not Dating You

You’ve been in this situation before: you meet a guy who is really great. You guys hit it off, you start hanging out, hooking up… you’re pretty sure he likes you and will be asking you to be his girlfriend in the very near future. But that near future comes and goes and, um, this dude still isn’t dating you. He hangs out with you, you guys cuddle, you talk about stuff… so why isn’t he dating you?!

I hear girls – my friends, you guys, randoms I overhear – complaining about this issue all.the.time. And I’m not going to lie, I used to do the same exact thing. It’s a frustrating situation! But the sooner we can figure out why this particular person doesn’t want to be your boyfriend, the sooner you can say eff him and move on. Here are 10 possible reasons why your crush isn’t dating you:

Are you in this situation right now? Do you think these reasons are correct? What other reasons did I forget? Tell me in the comments.


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  • anon

    The most common reason for a guy to not make a girl he is dating official is because he just doesn’t find her relationship material. Maybe he’s turned off by how many sexual partners she’s had, maybe she flirts with all his friends or maybe she dresses like a whore..

  • Jane

    What about he wants to make you his girlfriend but he’s too shy to ask you?

  • Lissette

    The guy I talk to talks to another girl too… I like him to much to stop talking to him 🙁 what should I do?