The biggest thing that makes having a crush so complicated is all of the confusing emotions that you’re constantly feeling. How are you supposed to know if he likes you back or not?! Sometimes, even if he says he likes you, it can still be hard to tell if he really does or if he’s just trying to play you.
Here at Gurl, we’re constantly getting questions from you guys asking how to know if your crush likes you back. Well, I don’t know your crushes personally, but I do know that there are some telltale signs any guy will put off if he’s into you. If your crush does a lot of this stuff, then guess what? He’s probably just as into you as you are to him!
He always texts you back. And if he doesn’t for a little while, then he says sorry and explains why he was MIA.
You randomly catch him staring at you happily and when you do, he gets embarrassed.
He seems really excited to take you out somewhere, whether you’re just going to the movies or going out for a nice dinner.
He doesn’t talk about other girls in front of you, even if a gorgeous girl walks by or the hottest actress ever gets naked while you’re watching a movie.
He doesn’t try to hook up with you right away. He wants it to be special!
He asks you questions about your life. If he’s genuinely interested in getting to know you, he’ll want to talk about you more than just himself.
He actually calls you. In this age of texting and online messaging, if a dude actually picks up a phone to call you… take that as a good sign.
He remembers those thing you tell him, or things he’s noticed about you.
He gets into a little PDA with you in public, like holding your hand, kissing your cheek or just being cute with you.
He’s always smiling and laughing every time he’s around you. This shows he’s happy!
He cleans his room before you come over. A lot of guys (not all guys) are messy and don’t really care about it. But if he goes out of his way to clean for you, he wants to make a good impression.
He does other things to impress you, like casually mention he does something really cool. Or maybe he shows off a little. It’s cute!
If he has to cancel plans, he apologizes, explains why and makes new plans with you.
He goes out of his way to make sure you’re happy. He does what you want to do and will cancel plans with other people sometimes to see you.
You just kind of know. Sometimes, you can’t help but notice the sparks.
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Do you think your crush likes you? What other signs do you think there are that someone likes you? Tell me in the comments.