That’s exactly what y’all are talking about this week on the message boards:
“Does he feel the same way about you? Have you ever talked about the feelings you have for him, together?
It sounds like you have some really strong feelings for him. I think ‘love’ is too strong/heavy of a word to use right now, when/if you haven’t talked to him yet about it.”
“I don’t think you’re ever too young to know what love is. The meaning of the word might change as you grow older, but if it feels real, then it is real to you, so don’t ever listen to people that try to tell you that you’re too young to love. If you think you’re in love, then you might be! But if you have never felt that feeling before, it could just be a big crush that you confuse for love.”
“It sounds like you have a case of infatuation. I can only speak from experience when it comes to being in love with an unrelated person I have deep feelings for. This type of love is mutual and is not one-sided. It does not lack the knowledge of feelings and what is understood by both parties as the basis of their love. It sounds like you do not even know this guy you claim to be in love with.
Infatuation keeps you guessing and wondering whether the feelings are mutual. However, love comes along with security in knowing that you are a factor in that person’s life.”
Love is a really tough emotion to describe, but it’s one of those things that you just know when you feel it. And if you have to ask if you’re in love, you’re not. You will know.
I don’t think you can love someone if you don’t know them. Part of falling in love is getting to know a person inside and out. People often confuse infatuation and lust with love because those are strong emotions. Love, on the other hand, is something that develops and that you’ll feel deep within every fiber of your being.
Love is an emotion that can also change. You can go from loving someone as a person to being in love with them. When the switch happens, you’ll feel it.
Have you ever been confused if it’s like or love? How did you know? Tell us in the comments!
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