Comments Of The Week: 10 Of Your Comments About Porn

Everyone has something to say about porn. Personally, I think that there is something to be said about how women in mainstream porn productions are depicted–almost always with a male gaze in mind–and how the female porn stars themselves are treated on and off the set. With that said, I don’t think there is anything inherently bad about porn at all.

Even though some of it is just straight up creepy to me. I won’t get into details, but I must have a very low tolerance for anything too kinky.

But where do you stand on porn when your bf/gf seems more interested in images on a screen than they are in you? Can it have a positive or negative effect on your relationship? Is porn really more of a guy thing than a girl thing? Well, our readers have a lot to say about porn, so here’s 10 comments of your comments about porn. Check to see if yours is included!


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So what’s your verdict on porn? What about porn and relationships? Do you think that women want something different out of porn than men? Tell us in the comments!

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  • CuriousOrange

    Girls who feel porn is cheating…. To be frank, you are insecure with yourselves, take it from an “old” lady who is in corporate-level management and in an established relationship. My BF and I both like porn. We have our different tastes, to a degree, but that doesn’t mean that neither of us are fulfilled or are going to cheat to “get that”. Fantasies are fantasies. Not always meant to be “fulfilled”. If, however, you are being forced (“strongly encouraged”) to do something you’re not comfortable with, you need to make that known…then dump his ass if he won’t respect your feelings about your limitations. And NO – it is not a proven fact that purveyors of porn escalate into bestiality or child porn to fuel their “fire”. Those people are sociopaths, possibly psychopaths (there is a major difference between the two), and should be avoided at all costs.

  • natalya

    Hey! If guys can watch porn then girls can too! (Yaoi anyone?) U know! Pornography for girls! Or even character x reader lemons!

  • fuko chan

    I have no problem and neither does my boyfriend. It’s just that if it ever comes up in a conversation or if he sees any of mine he’ll get so self concious about himself. He has kinda low self confidence and I’m not sure how to boost it. And I suggested to him that I would give up porn for him but he sad no cause he would feel mean considering the fact that he likes porn too. Does anyone have any ideas on how to host his confidence? It would be much appreciated ^_^

  • john

    Porn is mostly about male fantasies and objectifies women?? Well that’s probably because it’s for men. You’ve got problem with that?? Well, sorry but we don’t care.

    You girl want some more female friendly porn ? Then invite some guy to your house and start making female friendly porn yourself. Problem solved.

  • Splinter

    I came here after quitting Tumblr. Please tell me this site’s writers haven’t jumped on the “women are always victims” bandwagon too.

  • ????

    For all of the people who think that porn is cheating,let me ask you this: What if you or your boyfriend is grounded and you cant talk or hang out? What are you going to do if you suddenly get horny and don’t know what to do? My answer would be to watch porn and masturbate to it!! YOU are your boyfriends reality,not the girl on your damn computer screen ( who ever said that in the comments had a wonderful point with it). But guys get bored. Maybe your not available to help him! I mean,i watch porn more often then my boyfriend and i hardly ever watch it! I believe that porn is just something to watch and learn from. Some of it is bad and i make sure the ones i watch aren’t. But i’m sorry if you think it’s cheating because it really isn’t. Your guy isn’t thinking “i want to have sex with that girl on the screen” he’s thinking “I want to be doing that with my girl”!

  • Gicelle

    I think porn is just “sexual me” time. It’s like masturbating-sometimes you just want the freedom to do your thing. It should only be a problem if they’re choosing porn over you. I personally employ a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policy. Because as long as it’s not hurting the relationship, it’s not a problem. And it’ll just bother you if you knew.