10 Mistakes You’ll Make When You Lose Your Virginity

Losing your virginity means something different to everyone. For some girls, it’s a really, really big deal – one of the most important moments of their lives. For other girls, it’s not so serious. And that’s okay, because when it comes to having sex for the first time, everyone’s experience is going to be different.

One thing’s for sure though: everyone is going to make some sort of mistake. I don’t care what you see on TV shows and movies – losing your virginity is not going to be a picture-perfect moment. Yes, it might be romantic and sweet and something to remember, but you will do something wrong at some point. It’s your first time doing something new! What do you expect?!  Here are the 10 mistakes you’ll probably make when you lose your virginity – you might not make all of them, but I guarantee you’ll make (or you already made) one of them.

Have you lost your virginity yet? Did you make any of these mistakes? Were there any other mistakes I missed? Tell me in the comments!


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  • Maria Torres

    Hi my name is maria and me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and i lost my virginity to him but he dint cum in me what happens (im 15 and he is 18)

  • Abby

    I’m 14 and i’m speaking to a 19 year old, I don’t know if that’s illegal or not (UK Laws). But he keeps asking me would i do things with him (handjob, blowjob, etc.) I haven’t kissed anyone, i’m a virgin, (which he is very aware of.) I’m clueless about everything. I don’t know how to kiss or anything like that. I’m slightly scared that he will laugh at me. He know’s that i haven’t kissed anyone. He keeps mentioning having sex and i’m not ready. It’s not that i’m refusing getting kissed or anything else, it’s just i get anxious. He has had sex before and when/if we do i’m scared that something will go wrong and i would want the ground to swallow me up. I don’t want to lose my virginity until i’m about 16. Also i’m scared of what my mam will think because obviously as i have mentioned previously, he is 19. The thing is though, my mam was pregnant with my brother at the age of 15 with my dad who was 18. Also, there is 20 years between my aunt and uncle. So my mam can’t punish me for dating (if we do) a 19 year old. It’s not like i’m having sex with him.

  • Anna Black

    “a little bit painful”?!? Why exactly? Due to virginity hymens? Firstly, we don’t all have a membrane. Most of us are indeed born with it, BUT. It is very fragile and is torn due to physical activity when we were very young ( http://everydayfeminism.com/2014/09/lies-to-stop-teaching-girls/). In the very unlikely case a girl does still have a membrane, till the time she has sex, its breakage is not painful. The membrane is very thin and fragile, so most girls don’t even feel it. Also, vaginas are almost always bigger than dicks (average 18 cms, dicks about 14,5 – 15 cms), and a lot flexible and wet when aroused, so however big a dick may be, it can’t cause any pain. Only thing that could cause pain is too much stress since it makes the vaginal muscles tensed. If you are sure about having sex and really, really want it, there is not such thing as pain. Just thinking there should be more proper information about such matters out there. As for “You’ll Either Be Way Too Quiet Or Way Too Loud”, there isn’t and shouldn’t be surch a thing! Some girls like it loud, some other more quietly! No way to act like a porn star thinking it’s sexy or force yourself to be quiet out of shyness! Have fun sis’s!!

    • jbooth1031

      If you’re a virgin having sex with a guy, just the act of having a penis go into a vagina the first time can be painful for many girls. No one said anything about a hymen breaking.

      • Anna Black

        A lot of my female friends used to think that the breaking of the hymen caused pain and bleeding, so I thought it was a good idea to include this too. As for having a penis in vagina would hurt, using the same logic you can say having a vagina around a male’s most sensitive part causes pain. Just using common sense, if nothing breaks, and if the object you put in your genitals isn’t bigger than they are, taken as granted that you are aroused and eager to proceed, personally I don’t find any reason why first time you have sex is supposed to hurt when it comes to females.

  • N3M3515

    If he’s trying to convince you to have sex with him that means that sex is more important to him than your dignity. If he really loves you, he will never try to influence your decision on something like this. First sex should happen spontaneously, when you both are so much in love that you can’t think of anything other anymore (if you don’t think your love can ever achieve that level maybe you should ask yourself if he is really the right one.)

    • jada

      My name is jada i don’t have a boyfriend yet I’m about to be 17 i thinking about to lose mine when I’m 21 is that a best idea or do i have to wait for the rights one

      • N3M3515

        Hi Jada,
        It doesn’t make sense just to wait for the time to pass, the point is to wait for the right person to come. And again, you should not be only sitting and waiting if you want to meet him while you’re still young, you need to actively search for him.

  • Jessie

    Ok so don’t bother judging me I’m 12 and I’m going to have sex on saturday with this guy we have known each other for like 6 months he likes me but I just wanna lose my virginity I’m not nervous at all and it wont hurt cuz I masturbate so the ‘cherry popped’ Ive sucked him off and given him head but never fucked him cant waittttt

  • ohii

    m a girl of 24 year n I have lost my virginity after having sex with my boyfriend but before doing sex he cleared me that he will not marry with me but at that time my feeling for that was so high and I was confused also at that time and now he wants to leave me and he is not answering my call…Please helpe that if I married to another person and after marriage ha will be able to know that I have lost my virginity..basically I wants to know that there can be another reasons to loose virginity besides having sex