There’s no doubt about it – sex can be awkward, uncomfortable, strange, messy and just downright weird. I mean, sure, sometimes it can be wonderful and perfect and magical, but most of the time it can be a little odd. Just think about what it actually is.
Some sort of uncomfortable things happen during sex that you just can’t avoid and, hey, we’ve all made mistakes in the bedroom before. But there are a few things you should just never do during sex… like ever. There are a few things that just need to be avoided altogether if you ever want to have a rewarding and happy sex life. Want to know what they are? Read on to find out the 10 things you should never do while having sex.
Don't Be SelfishI know it feels good and you don't want him to stop whatever he's doing, but seriously... share the love. It's okay to be a little selfish once in a while, but only if you're willing to let him be selfish once in a while also. In general, make sure you're BOTH happy. Source: ShutterStock
Don't Have Sex If You Don't Feel Like ItIf a guy is all like, "Babe, I wanna do it, please please please," and you're just not in the mood, don't do it! It's okay to say no to sex if you don't feel like it. If you agree just to make him happy and you don't even really enjoy yourself, it's going to show and that's kind of insulting. Source: ShutterStock
Don't Say I Love You For The First Time DuringMaking any kind of huge declaration or big decision during sex is never a great idea. When you guys are that close physically, emotions are running high and things might be said in the moment that that person doesn't really mean. If you're going to say "I love you" for the first time ever, you might want to wait for a better moment. Source: ShutterStock
Don't Forget About KissingThere is so much going on during sex that it's easy to forget about something as simple as kissing. But don't! Kissing is great and fun and you should do it during sex. It can be very passionate and romantic and also it's a lot less awkward than staring into each other's eyes or at the wall. Source: ShutterStock
Don't Touch His Butt If You're Not Sure If He Likes ThatThis sounds ridic, but really. A lot of guys are sensitive about their butts! Some guys don't want to be touched there and some guys are totally into it. Feel him out when you're fooling around and if he gets all squirmy, don't do it again. Source: ShutterStock
Don't Watch TV DuringI know you guys might have the TV on to, uh, prevent anyone from hearing you, but don't get sucked into watching it. Seriously. One time when I was hooking up with someone, I randomly heard a really hilarious line from the television and literally burst into laughter. The dude was so insulted. Source: ShutterStock
Don't Try Too HardDon't feel like you need to go all out and act like the most intense porn star you've ever seen. You don't need to scream loudly or do things you think are weird or fake orgasms or anything like that. Just do what feels good! Source: ShutterStock
Don't Answer Your Phone DuringThis is SO rude. When your phone rings or if you get a text during sex, please ignore it completely unless you're waiting for a very important call. Source: ShutterStock
Don't Do Something That Makes You Feel UncomfortableAgain, don't do something just to make your partner happy. If he's begging you to do something you really, really don't want to do, say no. You're not going to enjoy it and you may even end up regretting it. It's not cool for him to pressure you, so if you feel like he is, get outta there. Source: ShutterStock
Don't Use Whipped CreamSeriously. Guys trust me. Unless you want to have sex in a disgustingly sticky and gooey mess, don't try anything with whipped cream. Source: ShutterStock
Have you ever done any of these things during a hookup? Do you disagree with some of them? What did I miss? Tell me in the comments!