What His Texts Say Vs. What They Really Mean

I like texting as much as the next girl, but even though it can be really great, it can also be really complicated… especially when you’re texting a guy you like. Whether he’s just your crush or a dude you just started dating, it’s easy to misunderstand his text messages. When you can’t hear someone’s voice or see their face, it’s hard to figure out exactly what they mean. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve received a text message from a dude that has left me sitting there saying, “WHAT?!” over and over again as I frantically try to decode what he’s really saying.

That’s why we’ve put together this handy-dandy little guide on what his texts say vs. what they really mean. Now, keep in mind that this isn’t foolproof. Although I did consult some trusted dudes to help me create this dude (yes, they filled me in on their secrets), every guy is obviously different. Just keep this stuff in the back of your mind the next time you’re texting your crush. It might help you figure out what his texts really mean. 

Do you think this is accurate? What do you disagree with? What kinds of text messages did I miss? Tell me in the comments.


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  • angela doss

    What does it mean when he just replies ,,,I hear ya….i’m so confused

    • Nathan Dempsey

      It means he agreed with what you said.

  • The Happy Face

    I send my crush a heart emoji and she said to me ”good night” and now ignores me

  • Bertha Vazquez

    What does it mean when you tell a man I love you and they respond with same here sweetie

  • Brittney

    I may be overreacting but I sent my crush a “Happy Birthday” text! And his exact response was “Thanks”, no emoji, no punctuation, no nothing! I don’t know if he likes me or finds my weird, but I find him staring at me sometimes in class! Help Please!

  • Michelle

    The one you missed was “Okay, will do.

  • stacey

    See then fifty six good and then cup cakes at night sock Dean poon any morning there later. Thanksstacey

  • helena

    My crush flirts with me and we chat for almost 24hrs a day!!!
    But im still not sure if he likes me or not!!
    Guys plz help what should I do??

  • Annette

    There’s this guy, and him and I have been talking for two months now, and a day ago we were debating on a topic and out of no where he started calling me sweetie throughout the the whole debate….what does that mean??? Because to be perfectly honest I do like this guy (only he doesn’t know) and I just want to know what that little part means? Because it’s killing me, am I thinking to much of it or not..?

  • Paul

    i noticed a text on my girlfriends phone it said:-
    I CAN’T TEXT ON THIS 1 BABE XXXXXX it was from her friend Chris i know
    is a bloke she works with and meets am i reading into this too much or what?Please help???

  • Amy

    Some of this stuff is awesome and true… But some escalated so quickly. Lol wink face – I want to have sex with you? Wut? Haha

  • rachel

    I love you so

  • Meggie

    We will figure out something closer to those dates but it does sound like you want me in your future which is cool.

    What does that mean? Which is cool?

  • Annmarie

    Hi just got message from guy saying do u want me what does that mean

  • Patricia Mango

    What does it mean when a guy ask for a sexy picture ?

    • sam

      He wants to jerk off to you

  • Angel

    There’s a guy and we’ve been talking for about two weeks now. I like him..I just can’t tell if he does me. He text me first thing in the morning. And throughtout the day, even when he’s at work. Then he text me at night before he goes to sleep. I think he likes me..although I can’t tell. And he’s never admitted to me he does. He flirts with lol’s and cute faces. And has even told me that my text amuse him. I think that’s flirting. I haven’t been in a relationship in a very long time and am utterly confused. I guess what I’m trying to ask is..if he likes me.

    • kerry

      Angel, how’s things going on? I am in the same situation as you, i could love to know how’s things working out for you!

      • Paul

        i noticed a text on my girlfriends phone it said:-
        I CAN’T TEXT ON THIS 1 BABE XXXXXX it was from her friend Chris i know
        is a bloke she works with and meets am i reading into this too much or what?Please help???

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