Is It Okay To Masturbate Every Day?

Hi Heather,

I’m sort of embarrassed to ask this question but is it okay to masturbate every day? How much masturbating is too much? I don’t want to mess anything up so please help.

Good news: it’s almost always totally fine to masturbate every day. Masturbating is healthy, it feels good, it allows you to get closer to yourself, it relieves stress, it makes you happy and did I mention that it feels good? So, really, if you want to get it on with your bad self every single day, go for it. No judging here.

So if it’s so great, why do I only say that it’s almost totally fine to masturbate every day? As with basically anything, too much of a good thing can sometimes be… well, too much. If you’re consistently more interested in masturbating than hooking up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, that may be a sign that you’re masturbating too much. If it starts to negatively affect your relationship with someone you care about… that can be a problem.

Another example is if you start masturbating so much that you stop doing things you need to do, like getting homework done, going to work, or, I don’t know, eating. Basically if masturbating is taking over and becoming the most important thing in your life, that’s not good. And, of course, if you’re starting to actually hurt down there from masturbating, try taking a little break to give yourself some rest.

I doubt these are things you need to worry about, but it is always something you should keep in mind. If you’re just into making yourself feel good for a half hour every day as sort of an extracurricular activity, that’s completely fine. But if masturbating becomes your number one priority, it’s probably time to relax. Make sense?

take care,
Heather

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  • Martha E. B.

    Times have changed and we know more. More about the health benefits, how natural it is, and we’re more aware of and accepting of alternative lifestyles as well.
    We have become more relaxed and accepting of ourselves and our own needs. Most men and women under age of 40 have no problem admitting they masturbate regularly and do- and drove the sex toy industry to a multi-billion dollar mainstream industry.

    Average masturbation frequency has increased dramatically in the last decade and fast approaching daily. In fact, Great Britain’s National Health System (NHS) even promotes “an orgasm a day”. The number of those who enjoy orgasms throughout their day is growing fast and becoming a lifestyle choice many people embrace and enjoy.
    I certainly do.

  • Right Suggestion

    Dear all, why you think that masturbation is bad. Please have fun but do not do in excess. There are many other activity in your life where you can find more fun and engagement in constructive manner. I am sure no one would like to do it whole day. However if you feel that you are doing too much then do following things

    1)Go for morning walk
    2)Make friends
    3)Learn cooking if you like
    4)Have pet animal at home.
    5)Do some social service

    Apart from above , you can try some good homeopathic medicine like Thuja 30, Phosphoricum Acidium 30, Nux-Vomixa 30, Rhus-Tox 30, Staphysagria 30. Take two medicine in morning and three in evening at interval of 10 minute. You can buy it online from buyonkart.com .Please do not wast money anywhere in false advertisement as what you are doing is not a sin.

  • Right Suggestion

    Dear all, why you think that masturbation is bad. Please have fun but do not do in excess. There are many other activity in your life where you can find more fun and engagement in constructive manner. I am sure no one would like to do it whole day. However if you feel that you are doing too much then do following things

    1)Go for morning walk
    2)Make friends
    3)Learn cooking if you like
    4)Have pet animal at home.
    5)Do some social service

    Apart from above , you can try some good homeopathic medicine like Thuja 30, Phosphoricum Acidium 30, Nux-Vomixa 30, Rhus-Tox 30, Staphysagria 30. Take two medicine in morning and three in evening at interval of 10 minute. You can buy at online buyonkart.com . Please do not wast money anywhere in false advertisement as what you are doing is not a sin.

    Have fun.

  • Korra MacKenzie

    I always feel weird (especially since I’m in my 20’s and live at home and my folks are aware that I do it because Mum’s kind of walked in, OMG) but, it’s gotta be okay. I mean, everybody does it…right? ^^; We girls should be allowed to explore ourselves and get that nice feeling. I’m not sexually active and never have been, but, I still know that important side of me. I only ever do it at night or when I don’t have other things to be doing. Don’t feel embarrassed (I’m trying not to!), most girls do it…

  • lol

    dont masturbate cause u gona get cancer

    • Korra MacKenzie

      Everything causes cancer, nowadays…

  • Emma

    Is it bad that I started when I was 10?

    • Korra MacKenzie

      You’re not the only one, trust me, there’s a billion girls in the world and chances are that at least one of them started at ten, too…

  • Anonymous

    I love to madturbate

  • alisha

    i am gal but its nice to masturbate every day in bathroom

  • nunu

    I love to masturbate its feeels goooooooood

  • FELIX

    I MASTURBATE ANY TIME I FEEL TO AND I LOVE IT

  • rose

    I m 18 I too mastrbate everyday. I m scared that would i be able to pregnant in futur pls hlp.

    • Patty

      There haven’t been any studies that prove that masturbation will affect your uterus. So no need to worry!

  • Bryon

    Glad to see Iam not the only I’ve literally on average I do 5 days outta of the week and have been since I was 13 , Iam 24 now happily married harder to find the time but I find it , and still haven’t changed I still average 5 outta 7 days atleast once or twice a day . Kinda blew mind , I wonder how many times I have actually done it and it’s just nuts ! At younger days I even been up too 7-8 times aday . Dunno why I do it or have the need to it’s just a different feeling all together , than actual sex , it’s a diff type of stress and mood relaxer than any other

  • Michelle

    I masturbate every day it feels Soooooooo good and it relax me .

  • Grace

    I masturbate everyday! Sometimes 2 or 3 times a day.

  • Sophie

    I masturbate everynight, it actually helps you get to sleep 🙂

  • toni

    i love to masturbate, and do so every day. Best feeling ever!

  • Param

    I musturbate daily before sleeping, it gives plesure.and orgasm like sensation.

  • Kaylaa

    I love to masturbate myself Nd other People!

  • Cristy

    I love to masturbate I do it every day!!! I feels soo good

  • Andreas

    when i masturbate i get in anherp world ful of hot babez an it feelz gud.