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> <channel><title>Comments on: Your Complete Guide To Oral Sex</title> <atom:link href="http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=what-to-know-about-oral-sex</link> <description>A teen site and community for teenage girls</description> <lastBuildDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2013 19:54:42 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1</generator> <item><title>By: sunni</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-484583</link> <dc:creator>sunni</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 10 Jun 2013 13:59:53 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=112223#comment-484583</guid> <description><![CDATA[It doesnt matter if she loves him or not 7th graders should not be having any kind of sex what so ever! The people that defend her are just as stupid as her. Because of trash like this, there is no hope for our oncoming generation.
Plus its all just a big lie. Congrats blueeyesnfreckles, you managed to be the most corrupt person on this page &#039;_&#039;]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It doesnt matter if she loves him or not 7th graders should not be having any kind of sex what so ever! The people that defend her are just as stupid as her. Because of trash like this, there is no hope for our oncoming generation.<br
/> Plus its all just a big lie. Congrats blueeyesnfreckles, you managed to be the most corrupt person on this page &#8216;_&#8217;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: CeCe143</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-483941</link> <dc:creator>CeCe143</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 09 Jun 2013 21:21:12 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=112223#comment-483941</guid> <description><![CDATA[It&#039;s just like sucking on a lollipop, minus the biting and chewing (obvi) but other than that you shouldn&#039;t have a problem with your teeth being in the way. Hope my answer helped your question. :)]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s just like sucking on a lollipop, minus the biting and chewing (obvi) but other than that you shouldn&#8217;t have a problem with your teeth being in the way. Hope my answer helped your question. <img
src='http://cdn3.gurl.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: tanlegsxx</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-483297</link> <dc:creator>tanlegsxx</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 09 Jun 2013 02:27:40 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=112223#comment-483297</guid> <description><![CDATA[I really want to have oral sex.i don&#039;t really care if it&#039;s a boy or a girl,I just think it would be fun.(: all of you pretending to be disgusted,you can back off,because if you were really disgusted you wouldn&#039;t have came onto this page.so go.go away.ok,have a nice day.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really want to have oral sex.i don&#8217;t really care if it&#8217;s a boy or a girl,I just think it would be fun.(: all of you pretending to be disgusted,you can back off,because if you were really disgusted you wouldn&#8217;t have came onto this page.so go.go away.ok,have a nice day.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: nerdygingergal</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-483126</link> <dc:creator>nerdygingergal</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 08 Jun 2013 18:41:41 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=112223#comment-483126</guid> <description><![CDATA[Firstly we are NOT judging her. We are trying to give her the self esteem she needs to protect herself.
We know she has self esteem issues because like you said, she seems to come from a broken home. And I know not everyone from a broken home has issues, but face the fact that the majority DO. Plus she&#039;s ONLINE taking about it. She obviously WANTS to tell someone. She seemed to be almost bragging in her first message and this isn&#039;t something to brag about.
Plus not everyone reacts to self esteem issues by throwing themselves at LOTS of boys. Thanks for the cliche. Some just throw themselves at the WRONG ones. Drug dealers or pimps, bad boys or older men. It doesn&#039;t matter everyone reacts differently.
Dot act like you&#039;re so freaking smart. We all know what sex is here. But did you stop and think there is PSYCHOLOGY behind LAWS. They&#039;re there FOR A REASON.  Its illegal for older men to have sex with underage girls because most of the time those men will do bad things to them. Sell them into the sex trade (WHICH IS A LOT MORE FREAKING ACTIVE THAN PEOPLE THINK) or rape them when they DONT want to have sex or a TON of other things.
Did you ever think maybe he thinks her body is beautiful but he could care less about HER, her FEELINGS and EMOTIONS.
Yes girls used to be married at thirteen. Everyone knows that. But do you know why? Because the life expectancy was about THIRTY YEARS LESS!
She&#039;s in SEVENTH GRADE she doesn&#039;t know what love is! Some ADULTS don&#039;t even know what love really is. You want to talk about national crises, well stupidity is a growing one.
Where the hell did obesity come from? Last time I checked you don&#039;t have to be eighteen to go buy a hamburger. Know why? You&#039;re not shoving it up your vagina and contracting herpes. It won&#039;t ever stab you. It can&#039;t kidnap you. FOOD IS NOT ALIVE. Eating is NOTHING like sex.
(On a completely unrelated note though I do find it hilarious that you compare men to food) and by the way, North Korea put laws in food and they sure as hell got skinny quick. (That was a joke so don&#039;t freaking act like it was serious)]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Firstly we are NOT judging her. We are trying to give her the self esteem she needs to protect herself.<br
/> We know she has self esteem issues because like you said, she seems to come from a broken home. And I know not everyone from a broken home has issues, but face the fact that the majority DO. Plus she&#8217;s ONLINE taking about it. She obviously WANTS to tell someone. She seemed to be almost bragging in her first message and this isn&#8217;t something to brag about.<br
/> Plus not everyone reacts to self esteem issues by throwing themselves at LOTS of boys. Thanks for the cliche. Some just throw themselves at the WRONG ones. Drug dealers or pimps, bad boys or older men. It doesn&#8217;t matter everyone reacts differently.<br
/> Dot act like you&#8217;re so freaking smart. We all know what sex is here. But did you stop and think there is PSYCHOLOGY behind LAWS. They&#8217;re there FOR A REASON.  Its illegal for older men to have sex with underage girls because most of the time those men will do bad things to them. Sell them into the sex trade (WHICH IS A LOT MORE FREAKING ACTIVE THAN PEOPLE THINK) or rape them when they DONT want to have sex or a TON of other things.<br
/> Did you ever think maybe he thinks her body is beautiful but he could care less about HER, her FEELINGS and EMOTIONS.<br
/> Yes girls used to be married at thirteen. Everyone knows that. But do you know why? Because the life expectancy was about THIRTY YEARS LESS!<br
/> She&#8217;s in SEVENTH GRADE she doesn&#8217;t know what love is! Some ADULTS don&#8217;t even know what love really is. You want to talk about national crises, well stupidity is a growing one.<br
/> Where the hell did obesity come from? Last time I checked you don&#8217;t have to be eighteen to go buy a hamburger. Know why? You&#8217;re not shoving it up your vagina and contracting herpes. It won&#8217;t ever stab you. It can&#8217;t kidnap you. FOOD IS NOT ALIVE. Eating is NOTHING like sex.</p><p>(On a completely unrelated note though I do find it hilarious that you compare men to food) and by the way, North Korea put laws in food and they sure as hell got skinny quick. (That was a joke so don&#8217;t freaking act like it was serious)</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: blueeyesnfreckles</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-481695</link> <dc:creator>blueeyesnfreckles</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 07 Jun 2013 05:05:53 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=112223#comment-481695</guid> <description><![CDATA[hehe :P  yeah it wus gud. OMG I wus a wee bit scard but he wus so gud n it didnt hurt. Yea u r rite it wus awsum, it made me feel so close n I wus so so emotional. I dint thnk we cud do it so much tht nite but it went on 4 eva :P Yea he use condom but he sed even if we dont use thm tht I wud b safe. I promise I wont tell ne 1. no one will find out. We r gona do it again ths weekend :P  thnx 4 ur kind words]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hehe <img
src='http://cdn3.gurl.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> yeah it wus gud. OMG I wus a wee bit scard but he wus so gud n it didnt hurt. Yea u r rite it wus awsum, it made me feel so close n I wus so so emotional. I dint thnk we cud do it so much tht nite but it went on 4 eva <img
src='http://cdn3.gurl.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> Yea he use condom but he sed even if we dont use thm tht I wud b safe. I promise I wont tell ne 1. no one will find out. We r gona do it again ths weekend <img
src='http://cdn3.gurl.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> thnx 4 ur kind words</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Emily</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-481379</link> <dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 06 Jun 2013 20:21:03 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=112223#comment-481379</guid> <description><![CDATA[you do realize that you have just told women to &quot;stop trying to be independent&quot;.  You&#039;ve mixed up women&#039;s rights and blowjobs somehow. seriously &quot;girls need to make their men happy&quot; is undermining and quite frankly sexist. no we do not need to &quot;return the favor&quot; because it is unlikely that the guy was forced to go down on you, so why should you be? and &quot;all this girl power crap&quot; is called feminism. something that women are striving for all over the world. why would you encourage superiority for men? a woman can blow guys all she wants, but just because he does, doesn&#039;t mean she has to.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you do realize that you have just told women to &#8220;stop trying to be independent&#8221;.  You&#8217;ve mixed up women&#8217;s rights and blowjobs somehow. seriously &#8220;girls need to make their men happy&#8221; is undermining and quite frankly sexist. no we do not need to &#8220;return the favor&#8221; because it is unlikely that the guy was forced to go down on you, so why should you be? and &#8220;all this girl power crap&#8221; is called feminism. something that women are striving for all over the world. why would you encourage superiority for men? a woman can blow guys all she wants, but just because he does, doesn&#8217;t mean she has to.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Leondra</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-481035</link> <dc:creator>Leondra</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 06 Jun 2013 12:38:15 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=112223#comment-481035</guid> <description><![CDATA[While giving a guy oral sex, how do you keep your teeth off his penis?]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While giving a guy oral sex, how do you keep your teeth off his penis?</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: alyssa</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-479409</link> <dc:creator>alyssa</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 04 Jun 2013 22:23:58 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=112223#comment-479409</guid> <description><![CDATA[Yes I see that. There is so much negativity on here. There is so much unnecessary paranoia about age differences. But people are naturally worried because you are younger. How old are you? you must be about 12 or 13. Buts its okay. The law is there but I think by making it statutory, the law decides girls are dumb and cannot think for themselves. Thats where I have the problem with the law.
Anyway, I see you know what you are doing and that he is treating you well. I see you have just given him your virginity. Awwww, thats so sweet. Was your first experience good? Were you scared and nervous? From what you say he is a lot older but thats okay if he treats you well.  I hope he made sure this was your best experience.  You already seem to know a lot about sex especially oral sex :P. But penetrative sex, unlike what others have said, can be mind blowing and the orgasms really really fantastic. Older experienced guys are usually good at making sure that happens. I hope he is using condoms. Just becareful you dont get caught because the law isnt kind. The law is stupid especially in situations like yours.
Make sure your grades dont slip and you do well in school. Just prove everyone wrong. This doesnt have to be bad like everyone is predicting. Just enjoy your first love and I hope it gets better with your family.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes I see that. There is so much negativity on here. There is so much unnecessary paranoia about age differences. But people are naturally worried because you are younger. How old are you? you must be about 12 or 13. Buts its okay. The law is there but I think by making it statutory, the law decides girls are dumb and cannot think for themselves. Thats where I have the problem with the law.<br
/> Anyway, I see you know what you are doing and that he is treating you well. I see you have just given him your virginity. Awwww, thats so sweet. Was your first experience good? Were you scared and nervous? From what you say he is a lot older but thats okay if he treats you well.  I hope he made sure this was your best experience.  You already seem to know a lot about sex especially oral sex <img
src='http://cdn3.gurl.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> . But penetrative sex, unlike what others have said, can be mind blowing and the orgasms really really fantastic. Older experienced guys are usually good at making sure that happens. I hope he is using condoms. Just becareful you dont get caught because the law isnt kind. The law is stupid especially in situations like yours.<br
/> Make sure your grades dont slip and you do well in school. Just prove everyone wrong. This doesnt have to be bad like everyone is predicting. Just enjoy your first love and I hope it gets better with your family.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: liberalgurl</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-478733</link> <dc:creator>liberalgurl</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 04 Jun 2013 06:57:43 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=112223#comment-478733</guid> <description><![CDATA[Whoa! what a judgemental bunch. You guys need to back off, take a cold shower and chill. ShanDale you are an idiot. You are falsely virtuous and just because you are frigid doesnt give you any authority to jude this young girls self esteem. How did you decide she has self esteem issues? Just because she has had sex with a much older guy? There is nothing in her post that suggests that she has low self esteem. She hasn&#039;t thrown herself on multiple guys seeking attention and validation. She is in a relationship for 9 months with this guy. So dont be so fu***** righteous.
LadyDy you sound like an imbecile invoking the law. Let me tell you sex is normal and natural and just because she is younger and having sex with an older guy does NOT make it illegal. Sex is a physiological function and a biological need that is natural. Nature is NOT governed by man made laws. Dont you idiots get it. She comes from a broken family. The ones that need laws are her parents for neglecting the emotional needs of their teenage children NOT the children who go off to find emotional comfort, closeness and intimacy with a partner. This partner happens to be an older guy. So what. Yes he finds her attractive ( from her description of her name she seems a pretty girl) enough to have sexual relationship with her and she has had the confidence to give herself to him. She was NOT forced or coerced. There were NO drugs and alcohol used. So whats the big deal. Just go to your grandparents and ask them what age wwre girls married off in their time. Girls used to be married at 13. So I dont know what the big deal is. Stop chastising her. Poor girl. Her only mistake was to fall in love with an older guy who gives her what she is missing in life. Love and affection, emotional solace, intimacy and closeness.
In the USA obesity is a huge problem. Can you control the problem by legislating against eating??? Can you forcibly take food away from the fatties? Would you stop obesity by introducing penalties and jail terms for excessive eating?? These steps may initially seem to be working. But hunger will dominate and slowly those fatties will get food by stealth, they will steal and lie to be able to eat. Eating is a normal natural function like sex. Laws cannot and will not be able to control natural desires. So stop this criticism of this poor girl.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whoa! what a judgemental bunch. You guys need to back off, take a cold shower and chill. ShanDale you are an idiot. You are falsely virtuous and just because you are frigid doesnt give you any authority to jude this young girls self esteem. How did you decide she has self esteem issues? Just because she has had sex with a much older guy? There is nothing in her post that suggests that she has low self esteem. She hasn&#8217;t thrown herself on multiple guys seeking attention and validation. She is in a relationship for 9 months with this guy. So dont be so fu***** righteous.<br
/> LadyDy you sound like an imbecile invoking the law. Let me tell you sex is normal and natural and just because she is younger and having sex with an older guy does NOT make it illegal. Sex is a physiological function and a biological need that is natural. Nature is NOT governed by man made laws. Dont you idiots get it. She comes from a broken family. The ones that need laws are her parents for neglecting the emotional needs of their teenage children NOT the children who go off to find emotional comfort, closeness and intimacy with a partner. This partner happens to be an older guy. So what. Yes he finds her attractive ( from her description of her name she seems a pretty girl) enough to have sexual relationship with her and she has had the confidence to give herself to him. She was NOT forced or coerced. There were NO drugs and alcohol used. So whats the big deal. Just go to your grandparents and ask them what age wwre girls married off in their time. Girls used to be married at 13. So I dont know what the big deal is. Stop chastising her. Poor girl. Her only mistake was to fall in love with an older guy who gives her what she is missing in life. Love and affection, emotional solace, intimacy and closeness.<br
/> In the USA obesity is a huge problem. Can you control the problem by legislating against eating??? Can you forcibly take food away from the fatties? Would you stop obesity by introducing penalties and jail terms for excessive eating?? These steps may initially seem to be working. But hunger will dominate and slowly those fatties will get food by stealth, they will steal and lie to be able to eat. Eating is a normal natural function like sex. Laws cannot and will not be able to control natural desires. So stop this criticism of this poor girl.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Tasty Vagina</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2013/05/26/what-to-know-about-oral-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-478340</link> <dc:creator>Tasty Vagina</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 21:32:14 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=112223#comment-478340</guid> <description><![CDATA[This here is what we call a trolljob.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This here is what we call a trolljob.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss