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Oral sex is great and can be a lot of fun, but there are a lot of things to keep in mind. I feel like no one really talks about oral that openly, but we should! There’s nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about.
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It doesnt matter if she loves him or not 7th graders should not be having any kind of sex what so ever! The people that defend her are just as stupid as her. Because of trash like this, there is no hope for our oncoming generation.
Plus its all just a big lie. Congrats blueeyesnfreckles, you managed to be the most corrupt person on this page ‘_’
I really want to have oral sex.i don’t really care if it’s a boy or a girl,I just think it would be fun.(: all of you pretending to be disgusted,you can back off,because if you were really disgusted you wouldn’t have came onto this page.so go.go away.ok,have a nice day.
While giving a guy oral sex, how do you keep your teeth off his penis?
It’s just like sucking on a lollipop, minus the biting and chewing (obvi) but other than that you shouldn’t have a problem with your teeth being in the way. Hope my answer helped your question.
Whoa! what a judgemental bunch. You guys need to back off, take a cold shower and chill. ShanDale you are an idiot. You are falsely virtuous and just because you are frigid doesnt give you any authority to jude this young girls self esteem. How did you decide she has self esteem issues? Just because she has had sex with a much older guy? There is nothing in her post that suggests that she has low self esteem. She hasn’t thrown herself on multiple guys seeking attention and validation. She is in a relationship for 9 months with this guy. So dont be so fu***** righteous.
LadyDy you sound like an imbecile invoking the law. Let me tell you sex is normal and natural and just because she is younger and having sex with an older guy does NOT make it illegal. Sex is a physiological function and a biological need that is natural. Nature is NOT governed by man made laws. Dont you idiots get it. She comes from a broken family. The ones that need laws are her parents for neglecting the emotional needs of their teenage children NOT the children who go off to find emotional comfort, closeness and intimacy with a partner. This partner happens to be an older guy. So what. Yes he finds her attractive ( from her description of her name she seems a pretty girl) enough to have sexual relationship with her and she has had the confidence to give herself to him. She was NOT forced or coerced. There were NO drugs and alcohol used. So whats the big deal. Just go to your grandparents and ask them what age wwre girls married off in their time. Girls used to be married at 13. So I dont know what the big deal is. Stop chastising her. Poor girl. Her only mistake was to fall in love with an older guy who gives her what she is missing in life. Love and affection, emotional solace, intimacy and closeness.
In the USA obesity is a huge problem. Can you control the problem by legislating against eating??? Can you forcibly take food away from the fatties? Would you stop obesity by introducing penalties and jail terms for excessive eating?? These steps may initially seem to be working. But hunger will dominate and slowly those fatties will get food by stealth, they will steal and lie to be able to eat. Eating is a normal natural function like sex. Laws cannot and will not be able to control natural desires. So stop this criticism of this poor girl.
Firstly we are NOT judging her. We are trying to give her the self esteem she needs to protect herself.
We know she has self esteem issues because like you said, she seems to come from a broken home. And I know not everyone from a broken home has issues, but face the fact that the majority DO. Plus she’s ONLINE taking about it. She obviously WANTS to tell someone. She seemed to be almost bragging in her first message and this isn’t something to brag about.
Plus not everyone reacts to self esteem issues by throwing themselves at LOTS of boys. Thanks for the cliche. Some just throw themselves at the WRONG ones. Drug dealers or pimps, bad boys or older men. It doesn’t matter everyone reacts differently.
Dot act like you’re so freaking smart. We all know what sex is here. But did you stop and think there is PSYCHOLOGY behind LAWS. They’re there FOR A REASON. Its illegal for older men to have sex with underage girls because most of the time those men will do bad things to them. Sell them into the sex trade (WHICH IS A LOT MORE FREAKING ACTIVE THAN PEOPLE THINK) or rape them when they DONT want to have sex or a TON of other things.
Did you ever think maybe he thinks her body is beautiful but he could care less about HER, her FEELINGS and EMOTIONS.
Yes girls used to be married at thirteen. Everyone knows that. But do you know why? Because the life expectancy was about THIRTY YEARS LESS!
She’s in SEVENTH GRADE she doesn’t know what love is! Some ADULTS don’t even know what love really is. You want to talk about national crises, well stupidity is a growing one.
Where the hell did obesity come from? Last time I checked you don’t have to be eighteen to go buy a hamburger. Know why? You’re not shoving it up your vagina and contracting herpes. It won’t ever stab you. It can’t kidnap you. FOOD IS NOT ALIVE. Eating is NOTHING like sex.
(On a completely unrelated note though I do find it hilarious that you compare men to food) and by the way, North Korea put laws in food and they sure as hell got skinny quick. (That was a joke so don’t freaking act like it was serious)
Okay, I feel like if a guy goes down on you, you should return the favor, and if you’re not going to, you don’t need to let him please you. I mean, that’s just not fair. If you’re getting a climax, so should he, and he shouldn’t have to masturbate after you leave to achieve it. Like, I’m sure some girls don’t like giving blow jobs, but suck it up. Your vagina isn’t the greatest tasting thing in the world, and guys still do it to you. Make your man happy. All this girl power crap is what’s wrong with the world today. Stop acting like your feelings matter so much. Girls need to make their men happy. Stop trying to be independent, get a husband, and keep him happy. Then he probably wouldn’t cheat on you or leave you.
This here is what we call a trolljob.
you do realize that you have just told women to “stop trying to be independent”. You’ve mixed up women’s rights and blowjobs somehow. seriously “girls need to make their men happy” is undermining and quite frankly sexist. no we do not need to “return the favor” because it is unlikely that the guy was forced to go down on you, so why should you be? and “all this girl power crap” is called feminism. something that women are striving for all over the world. why would you encourage superiority for men? a woman can blow guys all she wants, but just because he does, doesn’t mean she has to.
Wow!, i read all the discussions on this page and was seriously glued in. i cant help but notice that this girl has some serious low self esteem even when everyone is looking out for her, she doesn’t see it. I’m 16 and my bf is 20 and we don’t do those things as a matter of fact we are waiting. Naturally i wouldn’t even be with a guy that older than me but i love him and i am sure he loves me. Why? because he does not pressure me for anything and i am still a VIRGIN and i am proud of it
ummm, IM kiina feeling ashamed to ask this question but what is the effective way to suck a guy penis, I mean I know that you have to suck it but my boyfriend tells me that I suck,not in a harsh way, but yeah I suck at sucking it,and I really want to learn so are there like any steps or a video or something?
OMG evry1 is so negative and judgemental. he has NOT forced me and it is NOT rape. To evry1 it may be illegal but this is abt me n my life n emotions NOT the stupid law. He is not sick or disturbed nd he wud be proud to be seen wit me outside. He has never sed he dont wanna be wit me. Its becoz of the law. How stupid n narrow minded u all are. I am wit him all weekend and last night I lost my virginity. It was so awesum nd it felt real gud n rite. My mom is busy wit her bf and i wont b goin home till tuesday. So guess wat, I will be doin it a lot till then. There r sum mean people on here who have even made fun of my spelling. I can understand u care, but dont u care abt wat I feel n my emotions?? Just becoz tere is a law dont mean I shudnt feel luv or closeness n want to hav sex.I been wit him close to 9 months now nd last nite it wus beautiful. I cride thnkn how u can judge sum1 so sweet. sorry
I bled a bit but it wus all gud n ummm it felt rite
It isn’t about you. It’s about him. The age of consent law is there to stop legal adults taking advantage of minors. If your boyfriend is an adult and you’re under the age of consent for where you live, what he’s doing could get him (not you) arrested. The cops don’t tend to care about the beauty of your emotions.
Yes I see that. There is so much negativity on here. There is so much unnecessary paranoia about age differences. But people are naturally worried because you are younger. How old are you? you must be about 12 or 13. Buts its okay. The law is there but I think by making it statutory, the law decides girls are dumb and cannot think for themselves. Thats where I have the problem with the law.
. But penetrative sex, unlike what others have said, can be mind blowing and the orgasms really really fantastic. Older experienced guys are usually good at making sure that happens. I hope he is using condoms. Just becareful you dont get caught because the law isnt kind. The law is stupid especially in situations like yours.
Anyway, I see you know what you are doing and that he is treating you well. I see you have just given him your virginity. Awwww, thats so sweet. Was your first experience good? Were you scared and nervous? From what you say he is a lot older but thats okay if he treats you well. I hope he made sure this was your best experience. You already seem to know a lot about sex especially oral sex
Make sure your grades dont slip and you do well in school. Just prove everyone wrong. This doesnt have to be bad like everyone is predicting. Just enjoy your first love and I hope it gets better with your family.
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yeah it wus gud. OMG I wus a wee bit scard but he wus so gud n it didnt hurt. Yea u r rite it wus awsum, it made me feel so close n I wus so so emotional. I dint thnk we cud do it so much tht nite but it went on 4 eva 
Yea he use condom but he sed even if we dont use thm tht I wud b safe. I promise I wont tell ne 1. no one will find out. We r gona do it again ths weekend 
thnx 4 ur kind words
Um, even just having oral sex IS illegal! There is NO differance when it comes to the law. My son is a Policeman. I know a lot about the law, and if you are only in the 7th grade??? Girl, even if you have been held back before, it IS illegal! If you think he LOVES you, then why is he keeping you his little secret??? Why isn’t he PROUD to have you on his arm, not JUST in his bed??? If you think he LOVES you, then you turn him in, and see how fast he says your a slut that came onto him, and he didn’t know how old you really are!!! Go ahead!
I’m 17 years old and I had oral sex today with a guy I’ve know for eight years and dated on and off during these years. Besides being in a truck lol it was awesome and now I feel long overdue, I just hate that he’s leaving for basic training for 3 months. I’m really self conscious and I hate that about myself but it’s easy with him we love each other. I had no idea what I was doing at first but he liked it, then again he’s very…uhm “freaky” I guess lol. Best night ever aside from our dates <3 my army bf ((:
I’ve never been eaten out or even had an orgasm yet or anything and I’m fifteen. Yep I have a sad life but how does stuff even feel?
Darling, 15 isn’t an age when you look back and say to yourself that you’re a pathetic virgin. In fact, there are plenty of places where it would be illegal for you to have sex at all. So don’t worry- when it comes, it comes
There’s no rush whatsoever, and there’s no need for you to feel pressured into having sex at such a young age!
15? Girl, i was still playing with Barbie’s at 17. You obviously need to grow up a lot more, if you feel you have a “sad life”.
I agree its intimate, its really fun and if you can let yourself go to have an orgasm, nothing is better. Also putting a guys penis in your mouth can get addicting with the right guy, has something to do with wanting to please and make the person you like feel good. I think guys feels the same way about going down on us.
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how do you do oral sex? and can you have oral sex with a girl? and if yes how?
hehe yeah its caled 69.
My bf gets me to do it all the time. I go to his place after school most days because he is home and works at night. He has his own apartment so it is so easy to be wit him nd no one can know. He taught me evrythng. Its the best feelin wen he goes down on me nd he makes me cum a lot doin tht. We haven’t gone all the way yet becoz of my age. He dont mind tht I am so young and in grade 7, but he wants to go all the way. I want to too. I just feel so self consioucs wen he eats me out becoz I get so messy, but OMG it feels so good.
wait how old is your boy friend and how old are you ?
I am in grade 7.ummm..I don wanna say his age but he is a lot older. ..why? I kno u r goin 2 say he is usin me n it is wrong n stuf. I been wit him nearly a year now nd I am ready 2 go all the way.
I’m probably the only guy ever thats going to read this. So I’ll be the one to say, you are way too young for this. And if he owns his on appt. its probably illegal on his side as well, lol. Try someone your own age?
Hun, he is using you. It’s not normal for a girl in seventh grade to be with a guy that old let alone have sex with you. He is probably very sick and dangerous. Get away from him–and boys for now–and focus on school. Based on your grammar and spelling your head sure as hell isn’t in the right place.
7th grade? And your boyfriend owns an apartment?? How old is this guy?
Look you’re a kid and yes he is using u, it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been dating, that’s just how guys role, trust me u do not want to get hurt so don’t put your whole heart in this. if u do have sex with him PLEASE wear a condom and if he doesn’t want to then DONT DO IT! u have fingers and he has a hand, I’m sure yall will be ok without sex that day. I know oral is amazing (when its done to me) but if you’re gona do it please don’t get into the illusion that he’s not using you seriously.. what would u want with a 9 year old..im 18 and I cant say I would touch a 7th grader like that
Look sweetie, you may really like the guy and he may like you but it’s illegal for a reason. Why don’t you take a break and see if you want to date again when you’re old enough. It just becomes a matter of maturity and what you’re capable to provide in a relationship. Don’t have sex with him because it is rape and you’re not over the age of consent.
UM no. STDS can still be spread even WITH a condom. I now question the legitimacy of this website…
That’s not a guide to oral sex. How about giving us some tips on how to actually do it?
Thats what I’m saying!!